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I'll countenance your disgusting answer to say that, if you don't have anything helpful to say, or anything 'not dumb', then please, say on.
" You shoot down everything people tried to say to build you up" Haha! What a conceit! And I haven't shot anyone down, but merely responded with how I see and feel over the comments. That is no crime.
"you only found things to point out flaws and complain and then said our help was worthless and shallow" Is that only what I do? Wow.
" No wonder no woman wants you." Wow ... you've figured it out?! Then pass it on to the 26-40 year old single Christian men that are crying out Why!
"I'm sorry i wasted any effort trying to help and i promise you i will not make that mistake again." Good job ... I mean you not commenting again, not your 'effort' to help, which wasn't helpful at all.
Pray before you want to encourage someone else next time.
" You shoot down everything people tried to say to build you up" Haha! What a conceit! And I haven't shot anyone down, but merely responded with how I see and feel over the comments. That is no crime.
"you only found things to point out flaws and complain and then said our help was worthless and shallow" Is that only what I do? Wow.
" No wonder no woman wants you." Wow ... you've figured it out?! Then pass it on to the 26-40 year old single Christian men that are crying out Why!
"I'm sorry i wasted any effort trying to help and i promise you i will not make that mistake again." Good job ... I mean you not commenting again, not your 'effort' to help, which wasn't helpful at all.
Pray before you want to encourage someone else next time.
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"From what I am reading there dude, it reads more all about your will and what you want, I am not sorry if that's a bit strong but there is so many my and I's in your post and the fact that you left "Gods will?" right to the very end says a lot." lol So many I's and my's? I'm sorry, but that's our language. Can't talk about yourself without those pronouns lol. I guess you're trying to get at something, but I can't see what. Should I be sorry that the structure of my paragraph displeased you?
"Attraction from worldly eyes is very different from Gods or a kingdom perspective. (Well that's what I have learnt in my time being a believer)" I completely agree. I myself have noticed that.
" I know its going to sound all cliché and all but all in Gods time yeah. Things in Gods kingdom are often upside down and don't make sense but for those that have been saved, they can be sure of one thing-THE TRINITY HAS IT ALL UNDER CONTROL." I'm not debating this, and this is not under scrutiny.
"Ryan Gosling will soon be a thing of the past so thank God now that your not his twin;-)" haha funny
But, come to think of it, we'll all be a thing of the past.
"Attraction from worldly eyes is very different from Gods or a kingdom perspective. (Well that's what I have learnt in my time being a believer)" I completely agree. I myself have noticed that.
" I know its going to sound all cliché and all but all in Gods time yeah. Things in Gods kingdom are often upside down and don't make sense but for those that have been saved, they can be sure of one thing-THE TRINITY HAS IT ALL UNDER CONTROL." I'm not debating this, and this is not under scrutiny.
"Ryan Gosling will soon be a thing of the past so thank God now that your not his twin;-)" haha funny
But, come to think of it, we'll all be a thing of the past.
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One more thing, AAAPlus. Notice how the women posting on this thread didn't mention anything about my comments of attractiveness? About my jab at Ryan Gosling? Notice how all they referred to is the "anime and manga" part of my post? And notice how they didn't even try to deny that they are interested in attractive men? As a child would say it: You wanna know why? It's because THEY KNOW I'M RIGHT. They know what they really want. Some will never admit it, and will try to deceive even until the end.
I mean, it's sad, but, what can I do?
I mean, it's sad, but, what can I do?
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Absolute venom? Bitterness? Uncalled-for sarcasm? I just replied with honesty to what they said, and in nothing was I bitter or venomous. Rachel, if you were sick, and you went to the doctor, and he prescribed you with a placebo, wouldn't that upset you? Same here.
And I'm trying to see how your comparison can be considered "ironic".
Unattractive? How would you know?! LOL You've never even seen me ....
Just to add, if there was a guy as you've described, but extremely physically attractive, then of course a young lady (even, or especially, Christian lady) would show repulse in front of her peers and elders; but in her heart she will be attracted to the man, his looks will draw her mind, and she may even lust. She'll entertain a long stream of thoughts of them together alone, and of her changing him 'for the better'-- anything that will please her and make them more acceptable in public together.
In the words of Lester Roloff: Y'all are as depraved as we are! haha
And I'm trying to see how your comparison can be considered "ironic".
Unattractive? How would you know?! LOL You've never even seen me ....
Just to add, if there was a guy as you've described, but extremely physically attractive, then of course a young lady (even, or especially, Christian lady) would show repulse in front of her peers and elders; but in her heart she will be attracted to the man, his looks will draw her mind, and she may even lust. She'll entertain a long stream of thoughts of them together alone, and of her changing him 'for the better'-- anything that will please her and make them more acceptable in public together.
In the words of Lester Roloff: Y'all are as depraved as we are! haha
I can tell you first hand I only married my husband because he had a six pack a George Clooney face and a butt I could bounce a quarter off of. It had nothing to do with him being kind, loving God, or making me laugh.
I will suggest you get professional help to deal with the state of mind you're in. God Bless you.
I will suggest you get professional help to deal with the state of mind you're in. God Bless you.
Did you not read my post in the other thread here? It addressed books, the Bible, video games, AND Ryan Gosling.
Did you not read the post here that addressed video games?
I've never seen you, you're right, but I'm saying that the bitter sarcasm itself is an unattractive quality.
False. I wouldn't be attracted to him no matter how "hot" he was. And before you call me a liar, it is true because it's happened to me before. There was a guy in college who I, at first, thought was absolutely dreamy, just based on his looks, but the more I got to know him, he was so arrogant and cocky that I found him to be unattractive, and no amount of outward "hotness" changed that once I knew who he was on the inside.
Did you not read the post here that addressed video games?
I've never seen you, you're right, but I'm saying that the bitter sarcasm itself is an unattractive quality.
False. I wouldn't be attracted to him no matter how "hot" he was. And before you call me a liar, it is true because it's happened to me before. There was a guy in college who I, at first, thought was absolutely dreamy, just based on his looks, but the more I got to know him, he was so arrogant and cocky that I found him to be unattractive, and no amount of outward "hotness" changed that once I knew who he was on the inside.
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You apparently think you're God (since you know the mind and heart of everyone here), so why did you bother to post?
You're a Bitter Betty, and you look for fights. I understand you're angry. The Christian life hasn't been what you'd thought it would be, and the things that were promised to you haven't come about. But instead of raging against people, deal with your anger towards God. Deal with the anger towards yourself and those who have hurt you. The sooner you find forgiveness the sooner you'll find the peace and joy you've been missing.
You're free to rip this (and probably me) apart.
Ready... set... go!
You're a Bitter Betty, and you look for fights. I understand you're angry. The Christian life hasn't been what you'd thought it would be, and the things that were promised to you haven't come about. But instead of raging against people, deal with your anger towards God. Deal with the anger towards yourself and those who have hurt you. The sooner you find forgiveness the sooner you'll find the peace and joy you've been missing.
You're free to rip this (and probably me) apart.
Ready... set... go!
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Art05, I can understand your frustration of this all and I can relate in some ways. It is hard for me to find a true christian conservative guy that isn't shallow, has values and has interests other than watching rated R movies. I don't find your interests to be boring, including video games.. I actually find mmorpg's to be really fun/addicting/a way to escape the real world. However, like you I have yet to come across a girl in my area with those same interests, so I believe you when you say you can't find any. As far as looks, yes I will agree that there are alot of girls and guys that are shallow (including christian girls/guys), which I also hate because the longevity of a relationship isn't based on that. I get annoyed when a guy asks me "what kind of guy is your type?".. I dont have one.. I dont judge people based on that because I know that looks fade and even if someone is a text book version of "perfect" in the looks department, he/she could be the most boring person you've encountered or the most sinful. I really don't know what advice to give except for, God has a plan for you, and stay strong and stick to your beliefs. I will pray that a special person comes your way and that you will find happiness.
