Do you think God is more likely to bring me a virgin if I'm a virgin myself?

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dothackzero

dothackzero

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I'm just wondering since I really want to marry a virgin, and yes I am a virgin myself. But yeah, I'm curious what you guys think? Also what are the chance of me finding a strong Christian virgin my age?
 
i dont know, do you think if i pretend like im a pig god will turn me into one????
 
I don't really think it's possible to have an opinion on what God would do in a situation like that, he is a mystery to us and you just have to hope it happens but also accept that it might not, and consider that their might be upsides to that, try not to see it as a bad thing if your future partner is not a virgin.

But at age 21 I'd say your chances are fairly good, mine at 26 are probably not so good but while it would be special if my partner was also I wouldn't be bothered if she wasn't, her past would not concern me much as I'd be thinking about our future.
 
dothack, the best thing you can do is ask God, since He is the only one who knows.... He can either say yes or no... =) If He says 'no' I'm sure there will be a good reason for it, and that He's going to use you in a really special for that purpose!
 
If you're a carrot maybe God will bring you an onion to make carrot and onion soup! There are quite a few strong Christian female virgins around (or so I am told, it could also be mere propaganda designed to elevate the superiority of the female species), and we live in an age where travel is easy and if you have to travel to.... hmm.. even New Zealand! to find one of these then so be it, if you really want to.
 
be careful travelling to new zealand, i hear that mahoganysnail lives over the edge of our flat earth;)
virgins are overrated.
 
That her being a virgin is so important to you is a little bit concerning, I believe there are probably alot of potenially good christian wives out there that aren't virgins. There aren't alot of real christian teenagers I think and in this culture sex outside of marriage is considered more natural than saving yourself until marriage.

The heart of a person is WAY more important than their history. Look to Jesus!!! Jesus didn't come here to get you a date.

I don't think Jesus will pick your mate based on your wants, but one that achieves His purposes.
 
dothackzero said:
No, I don't mean it in a creppy way. It's mostly because I won't have to worry about STDs.
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ohh good grief.. not every woman that has had sex before they were married has stds! besides there are tests for those things now. You could always tell her your takin her out to eat then bring her to the health clinic to get tested....
 
VeritasLuxMea said:
I'm sure you don't mean it to be this way, but being so intent on it is kind of creepy.

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Way creepy.
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hes actually not creepy at all. its something hes concerned about. and i don't think men usually are the best judge of 'creepers.' from a female perspective, i can assure you hes not coming off as threatening in the least.
 
im a virgin myself but i dont put too much concern on the virginity. he has to acknowledge my standard. no premarital sex. i dont reject kissing, hugging, or cuddling but i know when and where to put the limit
 
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