All you single men out there. Kill the lust! Let's sharpen some Iron.

[ServantStrike]

6 weeks is dreadful? HA thats a piece of cake.

6 weeks in a marriage is pretty bad. Six weeks while single? Try six months, six years, or sixty years. It is what it is and it will be what it will be.

 

[vanillakay]

well it's no wonder men are in lust, just look at people like miley cyrus twerking every wear.....it's disgusting

 

[ServantStrike]

well it's no wonder men are in lust, just look at people like miley cyrus twerking every wear.....it's disgusting

It goes beyond that though.

It's not just about women dressing immodestly. Many of us men by nature visually undress women unless we train ourselves not do to it. If we don't accept the work that Christ does in us, or if we don't even know that He wants to change us from the inside out, we are going to be violating Matthew 5:28 repeatedly.

[SUP]27 [/SUP]“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’; [SUP]28 [/SUP]but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

And... it may have been buried, but anyone who feels convicted by that verse, join us. Links in my sig. Hopefully we can expand to more than just lust too. There is so much that we as men can claim in Christ.

 

[OGM]

The real question is why are you trolling a thread and instigating arguments here, when this was created for a positive, helpful purpose. All you've done is derailed the thread and turned it into your own personal debate.

Trolling??? I merely stated that one has to be careful and make sure lust is clearly defined and not confused with something else. We must be careful of stereotyping any group of people.

Now, the thread is useless to those who may benefit from it because you want to nit pick and argue.

Not at all. If a person has lust and/or sexual control issue; the thread is very helpful. If a person does not have lust and/or control issue; they can contribute to the thread and maybe offer some advice.

well it's no wonder men are in lust, just look at people like miley cyrus twerking every wear.....it's disgusting

Miley’s behavior is just very crass and low class. It is NOT a turn on. To tasteless to generate excitement. Trying to shock.

 

[Ugly]

well it's no wonder men are in lust, just look at people like miley cyrus twerking every wear.....it's disgusting

Bad example. That chick makes me want to go to a VD clinic just looking at her pictures. She looks horrid.

 

[ServantStrike]

It goes beyond that though.

It's not just about women dressing immodestly. Many of us men by nature visually undress women unless we train ourselves not do to it. If we don't accept the work that Christ does in us, or if we don't even know that He wants to change us from the inside out, we are going to be violating Matthew 5:28 repeatedly.

[SUP]27 [/SUP]“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’; [SUP]28 [/SUP]but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

And... it may have been buried, but anyone who feels convicted by that verse, join us. Links in my sig. Hopefully we can expand to more than just lust too. There is so much that we as men can claim in Christ.

Bad example. That chick makes me want to go to a VD clinic just looking at her pictures. She looks horrid.

Sadly.. some men may need to be tested. I mean she's got the walking petri dish look down so well, what's not to like, besides well, almost everything.



[SUP]27 [/SUP]“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery’; [SUP]28 [/SUP]but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

That's right. I just quoted myself. Divide by zero time!


And... it may have been buried, but anyone who feels called to, join us. Links in my sig. Hopefully we can expand to more than just lust too. There is so much that we as men can claim in Christ. There are many very good men there now.

 

[Tintin]

What's a VD clinic?

 

[TikiDawl]

A VD clinic is a Venereal Disease Clinic= a clinic that tests for sexually transmitted diseases.

 

[Tintin]

Yikes! Thanks.

 

[Fenner]

Yeah pretty recent. Personally I didn't feel like it was blown way out of proportion. I could relate to the character in a lot of ways.

V
I liked the movie too.

 

[Enow]

well it's no wonder men are in lust, just look at people like miley cyrus twerking every wear.....it's disgusting

Do say a prayer for Miley Cyrus that the Lord will wake her up and lead her to repentance.

1 Timothy 2:1I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; [SUP]2 [/SUP]For kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty. [SUP]3 [/SUP]For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; [SUP]4 [/SUP]Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.

Romans 5:[SUP]8 [/SUP]But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. [SUP]9 [/SUP]Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. [SUP]10 [/SUP]For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. [SUP]11 [/SUP]And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.

1 Timothy 1:[SUP]15 [/SUP]This is a faithful saying, and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners; of whom I am chief. [SUP]16 [/SUP]Howbeit for this cause I obtained mercy, that in me first Jesus Christ might shew forth all longsuffering, for a pattern to them which should hereafter believe on him to life everlasting. [SUP]17 [/SUP]Now unto the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only wise God, be honour and glory for ever and ever. Amen.

 

[Enow]

Miley’s behavior is just very crass and low class. It is NOT a turn on. To tasteless to generate excitement. Trying to shock.

Miley Cyrus does need our prayers, being in the thick of all things that are of the world.

1 John 2:[SUP]15 [/SUP]Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. [SUP]16 [/SUP]For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. [SUP]17 [/SUP]And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.

1 Peter 4:1Forasmuch then as Christ hath suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves likewise with the same mind: for he that hath suffered in the flesh hath ceased from sin; [SUP]2 [/SUP]That he no longer should live the rest of his time in the flesh to the lusts of men, but to the will of God. [SUP]3 [/SUP]For the time past of our life may suffice us to have wrought the will of the Gentiles, when we walked in lasciviousness, lusts, excess of wine, revellings, banquetings, and abominable idolatries: [SUP]4 [/SUP]Wherein they think it strange that ye run not with them to the same excess of riot, speaking evil of you: [SUP]5 [/SUP]Who shall give account to him that is ready to judge the quick and the dead. [SUP]6 [/SUP]For for this cause was the gospel preached also to them that are dead, that they might be judged according to men in the flesh, but live according to God in the spirit. [SUP]7 [/SUP]But the end of all things is at hand: be ye therefore sober, and watch unto prayer.

Romans 12:1I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. [SUP]2 [/SUP]And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

 

[Enow]

Bad example. That chick makes me want to go to a VD clinic just looking at her pictures. She looks horrid.

Romans 12:[SUP]3 [/SUP]For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.

2 Corinthians 10:7Do ye look on things after the outward appearance? if any man trust to himself that he is Christ's, let him of himself think this again, that, as he is Christ's, even so are we Christ's.

1 John 2:[SUP]15 [/SUP]Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. [SUP]16 [/SUP]For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. [SUP]17 [/SUP]And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.

Proverbs 31:30Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

1 Peter 3:Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; [SUP]2 [/SUP]While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. [SUP]3 [/SUP]Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;[SUP]4 [/SUP]But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.[SUP]5 [/SUP]For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:[SUP]6 [/SUP]Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.

The American society has conformed us to the world's image and in how we look at people. It's time to recognize the trap as we were lobsters in a slowly boiling pot and now we are in that boiling pot when we still judge another person by their outward appearance of what we would never say to their faces.

Matthew 25:[SUP]40 [/SUP]And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

Psalm 19:[SUP]12 [/SUP]Who can understand his errors? cleanse thou me from secret faults. [SUP]13 [/SUP]Keep back thy servant also from presumptuous sins; let them not have dominion over me: then shall I be upright, and I shall be innocent from the great transgression. [SUP]14 [/SUP]Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.

2 Timothy 4:[SUP]18 [/SUP]And the Lord shall deliver me from every evil work, and will preserve me unto his heavenly kingdom: to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.

 

[OGM]

Miley needs Christ...maybe she will turnaround. She seems out of control.

 

[Enow]

Miley needs Christ...maybe she will turnaround. She seems out of control.

She is, but as it was for me, Jesus Christ can turn her around as He is able to restore her to the path of righteousness for His name's sake. Pray for her.

 

[DragonSlayer]

Enow, you have Got to join us in the men's discussion. I'm sending you an invite.


And I think that you're dead on. Society has trained women to want to grow up and look like some very unrealistic standards, while it has also trained men to look for those unrealistic standards.

Feminism just throws a further wrench in the works as it then tells women this blame rests squarely on men and that men need to bend over backwards to atone for their mistakes.

We're so screwed up, there are now women who argue that pornography is a natural extension of feminism as it takes back control from men... except it feeds depravity and makes men look for other surgically altered candidates.

True and true, except for the surgically altered candidates part.

In a woman, artificial breasts, artificial lips, tattoos, piercings, etc. are all huge turns off to me !

In a woman, there's no greatest beauty than natural beauty

 

[DragonSlayer]

Everything constructive I have to say is already posted on the young adults version of this thread...........to get a little deeper into the issue though......I don't really know what to say to men that have a serious problem with this issue other than "get rid of the porn at all costs". Reason being, how do you give healthy...biblical advice when you have the following things to think about.


Celibacy is the only "acceptable" thing to tell Christian men when it comes to how they should relate to the opposite sex before marriage. Even porn addicts will tell you no porn is a good thing so they're on the same page there, and you can tell them no fap is healthy for them as well (Which I personally believe is true, especially if they have a pornography addiction).....But, telling guys no sex, no fap, and no porn......that's not advice that any young man I know can follow in the real world.....If you want to be honest and drop the "Christiany image" around the issue.

Unless you want to tell them to grab the first girl they find and get married, what can you really say to them? I think encouraging people to get a real girlfriend and have intimacy with her would probably be the healthiest thing to tell them, but we can't be doing that now can we? I think it's far preferable when the other option is having guys stare at a screen all day and never having any real human intimacy/connection..........but that goes against the celibacy paradigm we have going on.

What say you men/women about that? What IS good, biblical advice here....that's also practical? I don't know the answer to that question.

According to Paul, the only answer is : Christian Marriage !

But as there is an Antimarriage mindset in this fallen world ruled by the spirit of the Antichrist,
we, as Christians, have to totally get out of the Antimarriage mindset boat,
to create a Promarriage mindset boat and find in it the future spouse of your heavenly dreams !

 

[DragonSlayer]

Trolling??? I merely stated that one has to be careful and make sure lust is clearly defined and not confused with something else. We must be careful of stereotyping any group of people.

Not at all. If a person has lust and/or sexual control issue; the thread is very helpful. If a person does not have lust and/or control issue; they can contribute to the thread and maybe offer some advice.

Miley’s behavior is just very crass and low class. It is NOT a turn on. To tasteless to generate excitement. Trying to shock.

Okay, I don't mean to derail the thread, but I have to say that Miley is a lifelong victim of MK ultra experiments by the CIA from a very young age. She got tortured by the CIA program MK Ultra in unthinkable ways. Just look it up, mk ultra, you will understand. I cannot say more.
They watch and hear everything.

 

[Tintin]

Okay, I don't mean to derail the thread, but I have to say that Miley is a lifelong victim of MK ultra experiments by the CIA from a very young age. She got tortured by the CIA program MK Ultra in unthinkable ways. Just look it up, mk ultra, you will understand. I cannot say more.
They watch and hear everything.

Haha! What? No, she has had poor parenting and also has to deal with being adored by millions at a very young age. Lots of pressure, no privacy, no maturity - it's a recipe for a disaster.

 

[vanillakay]

Bad example. That chick makes me want to go to a VD clinic just looking at her pictures. She looks horrid.

*ROTFL*


That's the most funny thing iv heard in a long time! that's just awesome. Ok im sorry, mean streak over now. She does need prayers yes and sadly i don't nee dot be tearing her down, just pray instead