Do you have a 'Body Type' preference?

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jkalyna

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#83
I'm so private really, but I will answer this one thing. I would rather be single for the rest of my life than to be with a man who isn't taller much taller than me. I'm 5'4 in a half, and it's just the way it is. I like to wear heals, and feel comfortable with this, being with someone who isn't taller just isn't for me.. and that will not change, life is too short not to enjoy yourself, love yourself. I went to a singles group once, and the guy told me I don't like a women taller than me, wear flats, well that was the end of that. No one should tell someone what shoes to wear, be for real. I wasn't interested in him anyway. We all have our preferences. lol
 

AzureAfire

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BELIEVE ME! She looks like her present day AVATAR and she is not a liar: "i am blessed with good shape..."
Ahahaha!!! XD i WISH i were as lovely as my avatar, Madoka Ayukawa (love the sound of her name, as well!!!)

I'd totally feel awesome to have naturally blue-green eyes, and dark blue hair :rolleyes: and impossibly flawless anime skin!!!
 

CatHerder

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If she has tattoos, I expect them to be spelled correctly.

That's a deal-breaker.

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AzureAfire

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Body type preferences? Hmm...

I've had a fluctuation of preferences and non-preferences these past few years, i have to admit XD the changes are pretty welcome, since some of my preferences were impossible (like totally non-existent? XD i was crushing on cartoon and anime characters, after all :rolleyes: if i meet a guy with a square jaw and triangular shoulders like Bruce Wayne in Batman: The Animated Series, or gloriously white, soft, long hair like Alucard in Castlevania: Symphony of the Night, i honestly don't know how i'll react XD but i'll most likely stare at that guy!!!

When i was younger (like highschool age younger), i used to tell myself i'd only go for a guy within my race, 'coz i couldn't imagine clicking or being attracted to a foreign guy. And i used to prefer a guy with a skin tone that's darker than mine ('coz that would make me feel more girly XD). I also used to get attracted to really skinny guys, too.

I've been with guys with varying body types. And varying personalities, as well. But their common thread was they all had issues XD well, i'm no longer attracted to "dark" people, thankfully :) this girl is now solely looking forward to a beautifully holy man, with all the awesome qualities that Papa GOD knows would make me just praise and thank HIM so much someday, when we finally meet :eek:

Back to physical preferences, i have finally been quite honest with myself as to what i find attractive XD

I used to not care if a guy's in good shape, but now i do. He doesn't have to be heavily muscular. But i'd love for him to have well toned muscles :) it would be awesome if he could carry me with ease (but he'd have to catch me first, 'coz i tend to run away giggling if a guy wants to sweep me off my feet :eek: so that means, he must be able to run fast as well!!! I love to run, by the way :cool: either marathon or sprints)

He has to be taller than me, but not too tall. I like the idea of looking up at him :) but, not having to crane my neck, or having to get a chair, just to squeeze his cute face cheeks (have to note what type of cheeks, so the people don't start thinking that i'm some kind of a perv XD).

As for hair color and hair length, i don't have any particular preference. He could be bald, and i wouldn't mind :) as long as he has healthy hair and scalp, and good over-all hygiene, that's good :)

As for body hair, i wouldn't want an excessively hairy guy XD I'd like some scruff on his face, though :eek: the thought makes me swoon a bit, i don't know why!!!

As for the skin, i honestly prefer a shade that isn't too dark. And he doesn't have to be a Filipino :) i'm beginning to find foreign brothers quite interesting and fascinating. Overall, the skin should be healthy. Not necessarily flawless, since i myself have some "battle scars" a.k.a. childhood scrapes to boast XD

His eyes could be any color, but would have to be very expressive (since i love looking at the eyes). His face has to be able to smile completely (some faces smile just at the lips). His smile could be a little goofy, but overall, just awesomely sweet and pleasant, displaying a healthy set of teeth (i prefer the majority to be real, since i'm not into dentures XD).

He may or may not have all my above preferences, but overall, i'd like this special man to be awesomely different from all the guys i've ever seen in my entire life, so as to fascinate me whenever i look at him :) i'd love a face that dramatically changes from one facial expression to the next, forever making me wonder, and pleasantly weirding me out XD

Topping all this off with an awesome personality, a beautiful-sounding voice, and a heart that's deeply in-love and passionate with Papa GOD and HIS Word, and i'm totally sold :eek:

I trust Papa GOD will, indeed, grant me the desire of my heart :) someday, in HIS perfect time.

Now, i'm just focusing on my relationship with our LORD, and letting HIM change me and beautify me, inside and out. All for HIS honor and glory :) that way, someday, when HE brings me together with this special man HE has for me, i'll be everything he has ever prayed for as well :eek: and we'll be praising and thanking Papa GOD together!!!
 
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I hadn't planned to answer this because then I'm tied into one body type when I find things that are wonderful about all sorts of people. But what the hay...

Taller than me, even if it's just a little.
Bigger than me - I do NOT want to be the larger one!
A flat stomach is always attractive.

Other than that, whether they are lanky or built or beefy... I don't have a preference. Any body type can look nice in the right clothes. I do know that if he is too perfect, my chances go down considerably, haha, so there has to be some sort of flaw in there somewhere.
 
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I registered at match.com today and founded out they do have concerns on these:

Busco una persona con altura entre:1.78m y 1.82m
Peso ideal de mi pareja:85Kg y 87Kg
¿Bebes?:Beba socialmente
Referente a hijos, mi pareja:Viva con hijos
Hijos en el futuro, quiero alguien que:No quiera tener hijos
Religión de mi pareja :Cristiano - Católico


They also like things like economic status and schooling.

He! He! :)
 
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#98
Yes. I've been attracted to guys who aren't ''my type'' though. Taller than me (I'm 5'4...and a half!) and average weight, with some muscle, are my preference.
Ha! Ha! Ha! I will not typewrite what I'm thinking... :eek:
 
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flight316

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#99
I'd be disappointed if you did!
Yeah, but that bloody clown!!! Man, that clown, everytime I see a clown like that I turn away quickly. I do not want to see that clown in my dreams. That happens to me sometimes.