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M
Everybody can be a jerk sometimes.
What I like to do, when someone is being a jerk to me, is...take a look at myself first, to see if I started acting like a jerk before they did.
If the answer is yes, then I apologize and get my act together.
If the answer is no, I sucker punch- I mean, I um...I don't actually know, because I'm still laughing about the idea of me punching anyone.
Sorry to be of so little help.
What I like to do, when someone is being a jerk to me, is...take a look at myself first, to see if I started acting like a jerk before they did.
If the answer is yes, then I apologize and get my act together.
If the answer is no, I sucker punch- I mean, I um...I don't actually know, because I'm still laughing about the idea of me punching anyone.
Sorry to be of so little help.
C
We all mess up, Just because we a christian does not mean we are perfect does not mean we somehow got this stamp on our forehead that says non screw up or Perfect. Honestly sis this is why we have the holy spirit in us and why he spend time getting to know someone and what their character is like. To see how they react to your heart, your spirit, your character. There may be many men out there that just don't compliment your character or spirit or heart. Also don't be so quick to judge cause there may be things inside you that need to be uprooted that is causing them to react in a jerk kind of way! Point is no one is perfect and people are going to mess up.. Take me for instance I ask myself why am I single I am sweet girl with a good heart people say I am pretty or physically attractive so why am I single, but for a long time it was the hurt I would carry around that everyone would see the insecurities I could not seem to get past the past controlling my future, not accepting that people don't always react the same way as me... some people need space and time to figure things out to pray things out etc. I didn't know how to respect boundaries or except it wasn't always about me I am not this horrible person who hurt them .. they just need time.. So maybe it is your perspective young Jedi haha jp. but seriously maybe it is your perspective the way you see men could be hurting your chances of finding what you think you need or what you want. Remember also you don't NEED anybody but Jesus. Talk to him about everything and give him thanks for every circumstance whether good or bad.. remember to renew your mind through the word of God ever morning and hear him out on what he has for you, It says Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart 
I am praying for you Just focus on your perspective
I am praying for you Just focus on your perspective
H
well I am Christian and in this last relationship the only complaint was that I was too tired most of the time. I work 50 hours a week doing asbestos abatement and anyone who has done that knows how hard it is. then I would spend the rest of my waking hours running my girlfriend around to the store and appointments. she would then keep me awake til 3 then I would go to work at 5 so I think she called me a jerk for being to tired
