That's a total 'world' proverb, cliche`.
'Course, nice is defined as a guy who treats a lady with the respect that Christ wants, more so, that Christ demands in the form of no debauchery, drunkenness, and , all those other things in Scripture verses like Galatians 5 .
Herein these words accompany both the GOOD and the BAD values of a guy, with the Christian guy finding the fruits of goodness eternally important because He (and not the world guy) is attached to a life that is serving and searching after Christ's will and plans for His life.
So I say,
walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify
the desires of the flesh. 17For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever[SUP]
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18But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.
19The acts of the flesh are obvious:
sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
22But the
fruit of the Spirit is
love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
24Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.
25Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.
26Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.
Thus, we have made up a 'nice' guy who finishes first, for He runs his life not for money, not for worldly desires but for the prize of eternal life in Christ Jesus, his Lord.
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