You care intensely what I think. I just hang out and you initiated private messaging with me. You wouldn't bother if my opinion wasn't important for you.
The main problem, then, is your lack of honesty with yourself. I can't tell you anything you deal with that.
See?
Sadly, I have too many sisters here on CC who complain to me about your misuse of scripture to support your misogyny. They call in brother Praus to find out what's going on with brother Imperfect. Then when you refer to me as a woman or a homosexual then they apologize for getting me into it in the first place.
If you can't wield your own language like two-edged sword without hurting yourself, well, how will you proclaim the word of God?
Heb 4:12 For the word of God [is] quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and [is] a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.