"Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!"

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Praus

Praus

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Imperfect said:
welcome to BlockLand. your immaturity is too much to bare.
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If you're still responding to me it means that you have a seriously out-of-control Praus obsession.

I'm not some magical wonderful guy on the internet, I'm not even good enough to get to a girlfriend.

Maybe try some healing.

1 Peter 2:24 Who his own self bare our sins in his own body on the tree, that we, being dead to sins, should live unto righteousness: by whose stripes ye were healed.


Imperfect said:
do you see his agenda?

clearly, he wants others who disagree with me to share his hatred for me.

this is slander. hate. judging.

what other sins are you guilty of here? oh yea, not controlling your tongue and anger.
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:confused: Ok, which part is slander?
 
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Imperfect

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and i keep responding to see how long you will ignore honesty and continue with your hatred... take heed to what God said.. a angry heart is a lying heart.

a man who hates is judging.. they become a judge of sin. and judging is hateful. God is the only judge.

thou shall not judge.

let the man that is without sin cast the 1st stone.. you have casted.. well.. a barrage of stones, so far.. ive just been asking questions and watching your hate and anger build and continue.. just observing you dig your own hole, while trying to paint ME the bad and evil person.

kind of ironic... dont ya think?
 
buckets

buckets

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Jesus said if your eye is offensive remove it.
If you feel he is offensive remove him and move on, that's my suggestion.
If trying to reconcile do so.
 
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ServantStrike

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Praus said:
If you're still responding to me it means that you have a seriously out-of-control Praus obsession.

I'm not some magical wonderful guy on the internet, I'm not even good enough to get to a girlfriend.

Maybe try some healing.

1 Peter 2:24 Who his own self bare our sins in his own body on the tree, that we, being dead to sins, should live unto righteousness: by whose stripes ye were healed.




:confused: Ok, which part is slander?
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Just let it go man, it's not worth arguing with him. But I know where you are coming from.

Romans 3:10
As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:

Luke 18:19
And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me good? none is good, save one, that is, God.


Tensions are entirely too high here. This is the biggest gun in my arsenal. It nearly puts me to sleep. Not sure why.
[video=youtube;rOBnbRxF_OI]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rOBnbRxF_OI&list=WL988383D70FDC2C7C[/video]
 
Grace-Like-Rain

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ServantStrike said:
I think we can.


Quick... someone get her some face paint!!!


I'll put on the worship metal. I really do love every one, although I'm not always as good at showing it as I should be.

[video=youtube;JwMrJzi_7-E]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwMrJzi_7-E[/video]

Great is the Lord, who is worthy of all praise. Mercy. Justice. Glory. We cry Holy, Holy, Holy is the Lamb of God. So bring your burdens to the living God. He'll burn away.
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Yesss... videos and - FACEPAINT - STAT!
 
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Imperfect

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the funny thing is.. which is a huge display of hypocrisy and favoritism, is that, if i was in his shoes, and he in mine, i would be PE #1 right now.

Jesus was done unfairly. so i guess that treatment is nothing new.
 
Cee

Cee

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Hmm,

I think problems occur when a guy/girl wants a relationship, so they give friendship to get it. Yet sometimes the guy/girl wants only a friendship. There is a difference in needs being met.

If the guy/girl wants a relationship, they should go in with that intention and be upfront. If the other isn't interested then the guy/girl doesn't have to be "close friends" with them. Of course still be nice, but have proper boundaries.

Many times guy/girl try to have their cake and eat it too.

I think both guys and girls need to realize their value. Or as some put it, "be confident". Even niceness is a form of manipulation if you're doing it to try and get something from someone else. A lot of guys/girls do this and then get very upset when their "niceness" doesn't make others do what they want.

C.
 
Fenner

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Imperfect said:
@praus

why do you constantly attack me? what is your motive?

are you determined to get other people to share your hate for me?

do you have something to prove to yourself?


honest questions. i only expect honest answers.
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I figure people out for myself, as I think most of us do here. If something or someone is really bothering me I find it best to leave the situation, it's not worth getting stressed. I would stop take a breath and do something else.

Your little girl is really cute. Peace.
 
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Imperfect

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Fenner said:
I figure people out for myself, as I think most of us do here. If something or someone is really bothering me I find it best to leave the situation, it's not worth getting stressed. I would stop take a breath and do something else.

Your little girl is really cute. Peace.
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i agree. i do as well. i already know his hatred. its just ironic to see him dodge questions and continue on hating. it just confirms my questions.

and right now i really have nothing else to do but prove a point. my daughter is over my grandmothers and im just waiting for the cavs and heat game to come on which is in a minute.
 
buckets

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Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!

Imperfect said:
the funny thing is.. which is a huge display of hypocrisy and favoritism, is that, if i was in his shoes, and he in mine, i would be PE #1 right now.

Jesus was done unfairly. so i guess that treatment is nothing new.
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I hope you know my asking the discussion to end was directed at everyone involved.
should have looked first at myself and stayed silent
 
buckets

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Cee said:
Hmm,

I think problems occur when a guy/girl wants a relationship, so they give friendship to get it. Yet sometimes the guy/girl wants only a friendship. There is a difference in needs being met.

If the guy/girl wants a relationship, they should go in with that intention and be upfront. If the other isn't interested then the guy/girl doesn't have to be "close friends" with them. Of course still be nice, but have proper boundaries.

Many times guy/girl try to have their cake and eat it too.

I think both guys and girls need to realize their value. Or as some put it, "be confident". Even niceness is a form of manipulation if you're doing it to try and get something from someone else. A lot of guys/girls do this and then get very upset when their "niceness" doesn't make others do what they want.

C.
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this is wise! Jesus said to be pure of heart.
 
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Imperfect

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buckets said:
I hope you know my asking the discussion to end was directed at everyone involved.
should have looked first at myself and stayed silent
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that wasnt at you, i never seen you take sides or point fingers.. but ive experienced that myself... so i know how it can get in here. and this is a example where if i was him, i would be buried under a thousand posts from 10 different posters.

but thats what happens when you are in good company with 1 another and somebody who is unfamiliar pops up.

no matter what, they will stick up for who they are familiar with.

act of dishonesty.
 
Grace-Like-Rain

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Imperfect said:
that wasnt at you, i never seen you take sides or point fingers.. but ive experienced that myself... so i know how it can get in here. and this is a example where if i was him, i would be buried under a thousand posts from 10 different posters.

but thats what happens when you are in good company with 1 another and somebody who is unfamiliar pops up.

no matter what, they will stick up for who they are familiar with.

act of dishonesty.
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If it makes you feel better, I haven't read much of anything either one of you have said. This is obviously a private matter.
 
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colalella2891

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The way I see it, both sides can be to blame for the friend zone... If the guy doesn't make a move fast enough, he'll be friend zoned. That's true. But also, girls either give mixed signals, or they don't give any hints at all that they're interested in anything further than a friendship. If the guy doesn't know for sure that the girl also has feelings for him, then he'll be hesitant to make a move.

But it also just comes down to attraction... There have been girls interested in me that I wasn't interested in at all, and i've been interested in girls that weren't interested in me. There has to be that 'spark,' and it has to be on both sides (the guy and the girl).

Even though it puts me at risk of being put in the friend zone, I would actually like to become friends with my spouse before we're together. I feel like a friendship is the perfect basis for a relationship.
 
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Cee said:
Imperfect,

I don't know you and I've never spoke to you before. I have no ill-will toward you or any past history. So, hopefully you'll take what I say under advisement. You are coming off to me as arrogant, combative, and divisive. Also with a victim mentality of everyone against you. Pray about these things. I'm not sure that's your intention so hopefully you'll consider this transparency to how you are coming off.

C.
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Imperfect said:
that wasnt at you, i never seen you take sides or point fingers.. but ive experienced that myself... so i know how it can get in here. and this is a example where if i was him, i would be buried under a thousand posts from 10 different posters.

but thats what happens when you are in good company with 1 another and somebody who is unfamiliar pops up.

no matter what, they will stick up for who they are familiar with.

act of dishonesty.
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im the 1 asking questions, hes the one thats been attacking and full of attitude, sarcasm, etc.... but somehow...

wont even bother...

like i said in my quoted reply.
 
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Shouryu

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Imperfect said:
do you see his agenda?

clearly, he wants others who disagree with me to share his hatred for me.

this is slander. hate. judging.

what other sins are you guilty of here? oh yea, not controlling your tongue and anger.
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Aaaaaactually, he's not influencing ANYONE here. Because everyone with half a brain has gotten to the point, at least in THIS thread, where we see either HIS (Praus') avatar or yours, Imperfect, and skip the post, because we know the two of you are slapfighting like a couple of second graders. In short, we really don't care, because it's stupid. This business between the two of you is ludicrously petty, and you could both solve your problems by just letting it go.

Just a thought.
 
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Imperfect

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at the end of the day, trolls and their hatred get swept under the rug when they are familiar with everybody else.


God will be the judge of his heart and hatred toward me.
 
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MissCris

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You know what this thread needs?






[video=youtube_share;Hp054wMmqK8]http://youtu.be/Hp054wMmqK8[/video]
 
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colalella2891

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Shouryu said:
Aaaaaactually, he's not influencing ANYONE here. Because everyone with half a brain has gotten to the point, at least in THIS thread, where we see either HIS (Praus') avatar or yours, Imperfect, and skip the post, because we know the two of you are slapfighting like a couple of second graders. In short, we really don't care, because it's stupid. This business between the two of you is ludicrously petty, and you could both solve your problems by just letting it go.

Just a thought.
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Agreed.

Forgive and forget, like God does.
 
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