Interesting. Is it just me or do all these options result in either no wife or no stable-marriage?
In the overall big picture, you do those things ABOUT YOUR SINGLENESS. He did leave ONE important point off: with option number six, you find solace in Christ's singleness, and go about your life WITHOUT FOCUSING ON YOUR SINGLENESS. Live for Christ, do His will...and let God handle the rest. That doesn't necessarily doom you to a life of no-wife or no-stable-marriage. It just means your priorities are straight. Remember: Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.
Just stop focusing on being single, and focus on Christ, and if you are living in His will, He may do something to change that.