Teens, Porn and Solo Sex: Sex Talk in a Sex-Crazed Society by David E. Longacre

[The_highwayman]

tTrap of the enemy
if you even talk about it you will fall

Rev 17:4 And the woman was arrayed in purple and scarlet colour, and decked with gold and precious stones and pearls, having a golden cup in her hand full of abominations and filthiness of her fornication:
Rev 17:5 And upon her forehead was a name written, MYSTERY, BABYLON THE GREAT, THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS AND ABOMINATIONS OF THE EARTH.
Rev 17:6 And I saw the woman drunken with the blood of the saints, and with the blood of the martyrs of Jesus: and when I saw her, I wondered with great admiration.

Harlotry adultery fornication...
Get out of any church that tolerates those things.

Wrong!
Many fall because we fail to talk about SEX in the church.
If the church took back the conversation on SEX, porn shops and the porn industry would go away.

Most denominations either hide from SEX or shoot anyone who admits they have had bad thoughts regarding sex. This is because many in the body of Christ are babes in this area.
The main trap the enemy strangles the church with on the SEX topic is keeping Christians in the sin conscience and preaching they are sinners, instead of growing Christians with the word of God and teaching them they are the Righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. There is no teaching today on the sin cycle found in James 1.12-18.

There is a way to educate our kids, teens, young adults, singles, married couples and other groups in the church about SEX without making it sinful.

If the church got its voice back on SEX, we might just see a true revival break out!

 

[my_adonai_]

Wrong!
Many fall because we fail to talk about SEX in the church.
If the church took back the conversation on SEX, porn shops and the porn industry would go away.

Most denominations either hide from SEX or shoot anyone who admits they have had bad thoughts regarding sex. This is because many in the body of Christ are babes in this area.
The main trap the enemy strangles the church with on the SEX topic is keeping Christians in the sin conscience and preaching they are sinners, instead of growing Christians with the word of God and teaching them they are the Righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. There is no teaching today on the sin cycle found in James 1.12-18.

There is a way to educate our kids, teens, young adults, singles, married couples and other groups in the church about SEX without making it sinful.

If the church got its voice back on SEX, we might just see a true revival break out!

I have actually heard of a lady that got condemned for after confessing of her sexual desires and not knowing how to deal with them to an Elder in a Church.
Do not know of its authenticity, but that actually made me withdrawn from sharing any of the struggles i had from that church.

so i shared it to a total stranger hehe, and wooooo it was a relief

Jas 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

 

[my_adonai_]

Its strange though how Churches have made Sexual sin at the Top of the TO PREACH ABOUT and CONDEMN people about LIST, and forget about

LIES, HATE, Unforgiveness and other sins.. Matterfact it is a sin that Majorly rebuked.

Jas 2:10 For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all.
Jas 2:11 For he that said, Do not commit adultery, said also, Do not kill. Now if thou commit no adultery, yet if thou kill, thou art become a transgressor of the law.

 

[Kazak]

Have fun being sexually frustrated. You might have to cut it off as the bible says to do with things that offend! Damn your sick!

 

[Kazak]

2 kings 6:29 talks about eating kids as well as a few other spots. One claims they will as if it were a prophesy of punishment.

View attachment 69909...............

 

[Richie_2uk]

Its prayer guideline for deliverance.....

Wouldn't it be easier if you just mentioned to pray for deliverance from all that stuff. instead of writing a book? it would make it more readable by the viewer, not a lot of people like to read a whole book just to read a question of deliverance.

And how about doing a search on this matter before you make a repeated thread? you could of just applied your question or reply on a thread that is already out there God know's how many times. Repeated thread's always reminds me of TV, nothing but repeats and reruns.

 

[38miles]

The sexual revolution of the 60s kickstarted this, to a lull and almost rewind in the 80s and then people like Madonna just blew hundreds of years of puritanical morality to pieces. MB is, without a doubt, not God's holy desire for us. I do not see how we can be spiritually minded while touching ourselves carnally....I just don't see any aspect of holiness in that. It is selfish, narscistic, and I say this being, if I'm honest, the most self-absorbed narscisist on the planet. Seriously, I built a mirrored box around my head so I can look at myself as I type this. It's not about being prude, straight-laced, or whatever...it's about not being in bed with the devil.

Whenever people bring up kids, or animals. Psh. You mean the ones who deficate on themselves and smear it around. Hey..."made in our image" means so much more than we care to actually realize and pursue.

That is a massive deliverance plan. The beginning must be giving up something else so that God can free the thing you cannot. It's not bargaining with God, it's tactical submission. That may not be biblical though...someone better check.

 

[LT]

I have actually heard of a lady that got condemned for after confessing of her sexual desires and not knowing how to deal with them to an Elder in a Church.
Do not know of its authenticity, but that actually made me withdrawn from sharing any of the struggles i had from that church.

so i shared it to a total stranger hehe, and wooooo it was a relief

Jas 5:16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

she talked about having lust issues... with a man... and you don't see how that is wrong?

she should have either done it openly(so it's not personal, which is actually being a temptress rather than anything productive) or openly in a woman's group, or talk to a deacon/elder's wife.



again, this belongs in the young adults, teens, or christian family forum.

This is not a Biblical issue, but is describing a self-help system.

 

[IlovemyRemington]

I think that masturbation is something many people get mixed feelings about. The Bible itself does not address masturbation, it does however discuss keeping your mind clean. Everyone has sexual urges... God made sex and it is absolutely a wonderful thing! But when you don't tend to your sexual appetite correctly... then masturbation can step in and feed your urges instead of filing them away. I think that people make masturbation too big of a deal... if it isn't bothering you, then do not belittle someone else because they participate in masturbating and/or other sexual "sins".

[h=3]Matthew 7:1-29 ESV [/h]“Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye."

For any of you that think badly of someone who participates in sexual sins, and/or any OTHER sin... has no right by any means to bad mouth them. For any of you who have never sinned...
[h=3]John 8:7 ESV [/h]"And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her/him.”

 

[dcontroversal]

I was wild in the 80's and got right with the Lord in 1989 and the motto of that time frame was sex, drugs and rock and roll...not necessarily in that order. All I know is that the following delivered me from that type of life and all glory goes to Jesus and the Heavenly Father for taking a low life sinner and getting glory. This is what changed me...

1. Being in church for the first in many years and being convicted by the word/Spirit
2. Confessing my sin to God and then getting right in front of the assembly (church)
3. Moving away from all the temptation that was associated with so called friends
4. Studying the word of God before work/at lunch/and before bed while praying a lot
5. Being in church when the doors were open and paying attention to the word
6. Being sensitive to the conviction and direction of the Holy Spirit
7. Being willing to admit sin and change

Every man in his (right) mind will say God knew exactly what he was doing when he made women but I can look at a beautiful woman and acknowledge her beauty without stripping her in my mind and or any other wicked thought. It is the constant study of the word and being submissive to it's truths while being led by the hand of Jesus that has helped me overcome a very wicked lifestyle.

 

[The_highwayman]

she talked about having lust issues... with a man... and you don't see how that is wrong?

she should have either done it openly(so it's not personal, which is actually being a temptress rather than anything productive) or openly in a woman's group, or talk to a deacon/elder's wife.



again, this belongs in the young adults, teens, or christian family forum.

This is not a Biblical issue, but is describing a self-help system.

Don't forget LT, many protestant denominations don't allow women to talk at all in church

 

[my_adonai_]

Wouldn't it be easier if you just mentioned to pray for deliverance from all that stuff. instead of writing a book? it would make it more readable by the viewer, not a lot of people like to read a whole book just to read a question of deliverance.

And how about doing a search on this matter before you make a repeated thread? you could of just applied your question or reply on a thread that is already out there God know's how many times. Repeated thread's always reminds me of TV, nothing but repeats and reruns.

Thanks for the info, got it off a site.
If someone wants to be delivered, they are prepared to pay to cost.
That means reading the whole thing

But thanks for the information...
God bless you..

 

[my_adonai_]

she talked about having lust issues... with a man... and you don't see how that is wrong?

she should have either done it openly(so it's not personal, which is actually being a temptress rather than anything productive) or openly in a woman's group, or talk to a deacon/elder's wife.



again, this belongs in the young adults, teens, or christian family forum.

This is not a Biblical issue, but is describing a self-help system.

She confessed it to an elders wife..
maybe i should have been more specific..

 

[my_adonai_]

Don't forget LT, many protestant denominations don't allow women to talk at all in church

Please do not get into that.

 

[my_adonai_]

I was wild in the 80's and got right with the Lord in 1989 and the motto of that time frame was sex, drugs and rock and roll...not necessarily in that order. All I know is that the following delivered me from that type of life and all glory goes to Jesus and the Heavenly Father for taking a low life sinner and getting glory. This is what changed me...

1. Being in church for the first in many years and being convicted by the word/Spirit
2. Confessing my sin to God and then getting right in front of the assembly (church)
3. Moving away from all the temptation that was associated with so called friends
4. Studying the word of God before work/at lunch/and before bed while praying a lot
5. Being in church when the doors were open and paying attention to the word
6. Being sensitive to the conviction and direction of the Holy Spirit
7. Being willing to admit sin and change

Every man in his (right) mind will say God knew exactly what he was doing when he made women but I can look at a beautiful woman and acknowledge her beauty without stripping her in my mind and or any other wicked thought. It is the constant study of the word and being submissive to it's truths while being led by the hand of Jesus that has helped me overcome a very wicked lifestyle.

Awesome, GOD strips us off our past differently.
If the holy Spirit does not want you or anyone us to go through the Deliverance guideline, it is all good.
My Word does not stand up to HIS counsel.

That IS: if GOD has specifically told them NOT to..

Yet i do find that Christianity is a daily war, daily fighting off the advances of satan, we ARE KINGS and have to continually put HIM in HIS place.

thats why the LORD said PRAY WITHOUT CEASING..

GOD bless you

 

[my_adonai_]

The sexual revolution of the 60s kickstarted this, to a lull and almost rewind in the 80s and then people like Madonna just blew hundreds of years of puritanical morality to pieces. MB is, without a doubt, not God's holy desire for us. I do not see how we can be spiritually minded while touching ourselves carnally....I just don't see any aspect of holiness in that. It is selfish, narscistic, and I say this being, if I'm honest, the most self-absorbed narscisist on the planet. Seriously, I built a mirrored box around my head so I can look at myself as I type this. It's not about being prude, straight-laced, or whatever...it's about not being in bed with the devil.

Whenever people bring up kids, or animals. Psh. You mean the ones who deficate on themselves and smear it around. Hey..."made in our image" means so much more than we care to actually realize and pursue.

That is a massive deliverance plan. The beginning must be giving up something else so that God can free the thing you cannot. It's not bargaining with God, it's tactical submission. That may not be biblical though...someone better check.

One can go YEARS without masturbation. And most of the things that we can spend years without are not NECESSARY in our lives. I mean if GOD wanted us to do something like that HE would but HE does not, atleast lately i have not heard of ANYONE being led my the Holy Spirit to do something like that.

 

[my_adonai_]

Hope this does not sound rude or anything.

This post has had 296 views, if you do not fancy this post being here too late for that. i will consider it the next time i post something like this.
But again i believe there are people who have viewed this post and i hope that they pray about these guidelines and Ask GOD to help them out as they fast and pray about the issues they have with the things addressed in this.

Oh and i have posted this in the singles, teens, family threads.
God bless you all

 

[my_adonai_]

For anyone who have used this guidelines and can testify to it . please do.

Rev 12:11 And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death.

 

[CRC]

Breaking Free of the Pornography Habit
What if you are presently struggling with an addiction to pornography? Can anything be done to break free? The Bible provides hope! Before coming to know Christ, some of the early Christians had been fornicators, adulterers, and greedy persons. “But you have been washed clean,” noted Paul. How was that possible? He answered: “You have been sanctified . . . with the spirit of our God.”—1 Corinthians 6:9-11.
Never underestimate the power of God’s holy spirit. “God is faithful,” the Bible says, “and he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.” Indeed, he will provide the way out. (1 Corinthians 10:13) Fervent prayer—persistently setting your problem before God—will produce results.


The Bible does not specifically mention masturbation—the deliberate self-stimulation that produces sexual arousal and orgasm. However, God’s Word commands Christians: “Deaden, therefore, your body members that are upon the earth as respects fornication, uncleanness, [and improper] sexual appetite.”—Colossians 3:5.
Masturbation fosters a distorted and self-centered view of sex. The Bible assures us that God can impart “power beyond what is normal” to those who make a sincere effort to break this habit.—2 Corinthians 4:7; Philippians 4:13.

 

[my_adonai_]

amen bro CRC