Who couldn't you date?

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What petty thing disqualifies someone?

  • Girl with a manly voice/Guy with a girly voice

    Votes: 9 37.5%

  • They have the same name as your mom (girl) or dad (guy)

    Votes: 4 16.7%

  • They are a vegan (or if you're a vegan, they eat mostly meat)

    Votes: 15 62.5%

  • Girl with a strictly-guy's name (like Brandon) or Guy with a strictly girl's name (like Amanda)

    Votes: 7 29.2%

  • They are really passionate about something and don't know they are terrible at it (like a "singer" w

    Votes: 7 29.2%

  • Other (listed below)

    Votes: 8 33.3%
  • Total voters
    24
We have names around here like Tra'Quavian and La'Travia. (Two kids I work with every week.) I see a LOT of unusual and creative names in my line of work, and spelling them is often impossible, even for the kids themselves if they are younger.
 
Probably could never date a man more sensitive than me or a man that makes me feel like sasquatch in thumb wrestling competitions. Preferably he should also have less cosmetics than me.
 
Some one who kept forgetting my name.

So where are we headed tonight Tina?
You know that's not my name right?
Of course, I was just teasing, Jessica...
Nope!
Im sorry Rachael...
uhhhh forget it!!!
 
I couldn't date a woman who isn't mature/maturing in their walk and growth in conforming to the image of Christ.
Oh yeah, I also can't date a self-absorbed woman, a woman who is obsessed with themselves and their problems, or a woman who has a "woe is me" attitude about life.a
 
I was thinking about this while getting ready for church this morning. I could not date someone in a dangerous profession or someone who did not attempt to be as healthy as possible.

I know it sounds hypocritical for me to feel this way given my profession, but I have already lost someone I loved very much and I'm just not willing to go through that again so very soon. My mind understands that any one of us could be hit by a bus or lightening tomorrow, but my heart doesn't and it's being very protective of itself. Overly so I'm beginning to realize.

Too many of us take good health for granted. We should be ashamed. This is why I'm such a health/exercise nut (except for my Dr Pepper/gummybear addictions, which I'm dealing with :) ). It's not ALL about wanting to look my best. It's about wanting to take care of myself so I can be there, Lord willing, for my son, to see grandchildren someday, and for the one I love in the event God sees fit to bless me in that way again.

These are things someone would need to know and understand.
 
Who couldn't I date???

1. Women who can't handle the fact that I'm prettier then they are (jealousy is very unappealing to me).

2. Women who lack humility (see answer above).

3. Psychopaths (oh wait, I am dating one of those! Forget this last one!!!).
 
I couldn't date someone who takes himself too seriously, who isn't passionate about any cause, or doesn't have respect for all people.
 
This thread is awesome,'cause now I can officially make a list of all the women who will never date me! LOL

@ Descyple...thanks for putting the "notes" section in the back of your book...this will make a great place for my list.:p
 
I guess I wouldn't find this out until after I started dating someone, though I could certainly look at his habits on it before, but I do not want a social-media-publicized relationship. I'm okay with some things: an occasional status, picture together, updates such as if we got engaged/married/pregnant, etc. But I do not want a status every week of "My gf is the best evar!! <3" or pictures of every date or gift with "Yum, Steak n Shake with the wifey LOL #socute".

Puke.
 
rachelsedge said:
I guess I wouldn't find this out until after I started dating someone, though I could certainly look at his habits on it before, but I do not want a social-media-publicized relationship. I'm okay with some things: an occasional status, picture together, updates such as if we got engaged/married/pregnant, etc. But I do not want a status every week of "My gf is the best evar!! <3" or pictures of every date or gift with "Yum, Steak n Shake with the wifey LOL #socute".

Puke.
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(she's a creative writer, you know.):cool:
 
rachelsedge said:
I guess I wouldn't find this out until after I started dating someone, though I could certainly look at his habits on it before, but I do not want a social-media-publicized relationship. I'm okay with some things: an occasional status, picture together, updates such as if we got engaged/married/pregnant, etc. But I do not want a status every week of "My gf is the best evar!! <3" or pictures of every date or gift with "Yum, Steak n Shake with the wifey LOL #socute".

Puke.
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Oh gosh you are so right, I was with someone like that. She didn't hash tag but geeeeez. I can't stand social media in the first place. So thanks for reminding me

I couldn't date someone who's a social media addict.
 
rachelsedge said:
I guess I wouldn't find this out until after I started dating someone, though I could certainly look at his habits on it before, but I do not want a social-media-publicized relationship. I'm okay with some things: an occasional status, picture together, updates such as if we got engaged/married/pregnant, etc. But I do not want a status every week of "My gf is the best evar!! <3" or pictures of every date or gift with "Yum, Steak n Shake with the wifey LOL #socute".

Puke.
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The perfect woman! That kind of stuff makes me gag so hard.
 
rachelsedge said:
I guess I wouldn't find this out until after I started dating someone, though I could certainly look at his habits on it before, but I do not want a social-media-publicized relationship. I'm okay with some things: an occasional status, picture together, updates such as if we got engaged/married/pregnant, etc. But I do not want a status every week of "My gf is the best evar!! <3" or pictures of every date or gift with "Yum, Steak n Shake with the wifey LOL #socute".

Puke.
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I only regret that I have but one like to give this post =)
 
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I guess the answer to this would have to be - someone I couldn't trust.
 
That guy from Mcdonalds who looked me up and down did one of these ;) and asked me if we were cousins.
 
NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:
That guy from Mcdonalds who looked me up and down did one of these ;) and asked me if we were cousins.
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Wait, I'm confused... He was trying to ask you out and he asked if you were his cousin???!!! What a pickup line... "Hey, aren't we related? Want to go out sometime?!"

Talk about keeping it in the family.
 
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