if you hate me, don't like me or have a problem please don't be afraid to drop me.

  • Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.

    If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!

    To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.
L

lav

Guest
#1
#1
i'm growing up, and... i just thought i'd say i don't really give a d*** what anyone thinks anymore about me.
true friends want you around no matter what, so because i'd written a thread about how it feels to be suddenly dropped, i just wanted to say : you can like or appreciate me, but if you don't... please feel free to use the EXIT as i have suddenly grown up, finally... and it will not hurt my feelings in the slightest.


just don't let the door hit you where the Good Lord...


and, if no one sticks around, i am perfectly fine with it. i only need God, and He is more than enough.


-lav.

in parting, i wish to impart a sincere thank you to those who never accepted any friend requests in the first place. at least you were honest enough to start with.

i have been through quite enough in my life and i only require authentic friendships and relationships... so if you've been questioning, just know that i won't be devastated any longer, you are free to go !
 
Last edited:
breno785au

breno785au

Senior Member
#2
Jul 23, 2013
6,002
767
113
39
Australia
#2
Hey man, I dont know whats happened to you but I feel like your pretty hurt by something or someone and you need to ask God to help you work through that because it will turn to bitterness one day. You say you only need God and not people this is the words of a hurt person who is thinking of themselves and seek a self serving lifestyle. I have seen it before with other people in my walk with God and its not Gods will. We all need each other. We are going to spend eteenity with the saints..better get used to it :)
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

Banned
#3
May 3, 2013
8,719
75
0
#3
Ok! Here I go!

I have missed you! (Were YOOOOUUU dropping me out?)

I felt hurt!

I felt hurt because I have NO OTHER WAY TO KNOW: How is the "best" friend I thoght I had?

But I have loved you more than I have ever said... Did I told you that, lately? Did I wrote about it? NO!

But I DO LOVE YOU, LAVLY girl/women (who really knows?)

But I do care!

This is not a thread... Is this a threat?

You also know few people would interact with you, or me. you know -as well as I know- people reject others (Now you come rejecting people) Is this too challanging to keep you as a friend? (You will know that).

But I will stay, as long as you kick me off (Will you kick me off or take me up?) That´s UP to you! :p

Know, more seriously:

What´s going wrong?

What´s hurting you? I haven´t done anything wrong and, these words I left are A MIRROR of those words you already wrote (if you are kind enough to see them as they are)

Allow me to read more -in here- to see what´s going wrong with you, now.
 
W

ww_21

Guest
#4
#4
Hey girlie, it's been a while sorry I haven't been able to chat much lately. I just have so much stuff going on, moving and such. I'm always here if you need me. Big hugs to you.
 
L

lav

Guest
#5
#5
breno785au said:
Hey man, I dont know whats happened to you but I feel like your pretty hurt by something or someone and you need to ask God to help you work through that because it will turn to bitterness one day. You say you only need God and not people this is the words of a hurt person who is thinking of themselves and seek a self serving lifestyle. I have seen it before with other people in my walk with God and its not Gods will. We all need each other. We are going to spend eteenity with the saints..better get used to it :)
Click to expand...

thank you, i am quite alright spending eternity with the saints... it's only this world i must endure, if i am given such a
privilege. i appreciate your concern and see how you could detect bitterness. . . i'm not necessarily bitter, more just putting my armor on and growing up.

i will do my best to hold no resentment or bitterness and forgive whomever has hurt me, as God has forgiven me for my shortcomings.

it may sound a bit intense, but i think it's just a response to being to emotionally vulnerable and soft before, and for me it is actually something healthy.

i decline to comment further on this issue, as i owe no explanations or defenses for it.

may God bless you in all ways.
i am prepared for many judgements on this thread, as well as the many judgements that will be continually hurled at me until the day i die... and if i am remembered at all by anyone, after my passing.

i am perfectly fine and healthy, thank you.

and i have every right to be the person i am and express myself as i see fit.

all is forgiven, there is no bitterness here. it's just a plain fact that is probably not worded as softly and politically correct as i'm sure many people would like it...

and no, it's not about being selfish or self-involved to the degree i feel many will perceive it.
but, perceptions are just that perceptions... and everyone is entitled to their own.
 
raf

raf

Senior Member
#6
Sep 26, 2009
395
6
18
#6
hey are you okay?
 
S

ServantStrike

Guest
#7
#7
You what?


Lav, I haven't seen you in chat in a while, but whoever is giving you grief, don't let that keep you away. You're good people. Tell whoever it is to give me grief instead. I have no shame and as such it probably won't budge me in any way shape or form.
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

Banned
#8
May 3, 2013
8,719
75
0
#8
Ok! Here I go!

I have missed you! (Were YOOOOUUU dropping me out?)

I felt hurt!

I felt hurt because I have NO OTHER WAY TO KNOW: How is the "best" friend I thoght I had?

But I have loved you more than I have ever said... Did I told you that, lately? Did I wrote about it? NO!

But I DO LOVE YOU, LAVLY girl/women (who really knows?)

But I do care!

This is not a thread... Is this a threat?

You also know few people would interact with you, or me. you know -as well as I know- people reject others (Now you come rejecting people) Is this too challanging to keep you as a friend? (You will know that).

But I will stay, as long as you kick me off (Will you kick me off or take me up?) That´s UP to you! :p

Know, more seriously:

What´s going wrong?

What´s hurting you? I haven´t done anything wrong and, these words I left are A MIRROR of those words you already wrote (if you are kind enough to see them as they are)

Allow me to read more -in here- to see what´s going wrong with you, now.
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

Banned
#9
May 3, 2013
8,719
75
0
#9
and, if no one sticks around, i am perfectly fine with it. i only need God, and He is more than enough.


-lav.

I dude it! You are not PERFECTLY FINE. You are kicking several "donkeys" to avoid saying THE WORD I am thinking.

Now i think you are not LAV, but an imposter, a wirdo or a NUT (hope you be a NUTSHELL). A nutshell is SOFT, inside.

Whenever you wnat to COMMONICATE WITH ME, I´ll be here; but let it be know I´ve found this as a flaw, a car crashed and, you would need to make some amendmets (I´m not seriously hurt, but YOU, lav) If you are LAV or the LAVLY girl I thought U was.

If you don´t knock at my door, it ok: It was, it is YOUR FAULT (not mine).

Be "perfectly fine" with GOD. he will write you back -too soon- all those things YOU HAVE MISSED ALL THIS TIME (Will you miss anything?).

I HAVE MISSED YOU! But this thread is a threat. I will not tell what it is. It would hurt you! (and it is not MY BUSINESS to tell you about).

Are you a catfish, by the way?

Now I´m MORE aware of this "risk". :p
 
L

lav

Guest
#10
#10
i am okay ! ! !

i had several people i thought were friends just drop me recently, not just on here... it's sort of healing just to say.. " fine, go ! "

and thank you ServantStrike, though i would never have anyone aim anything at you. you're a very good friend to me i know i can always count on. thank you
 
T

Tintin

Guest
#11
#11
I don't know what's going on. I don't think I ever had any issues with you, Lav. Honestly, I'm seriously confused.
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

Banned
#12
May 3, 2013
8,719
75
0
#12
" i have been through quite enough in my life and i only require authentic friendships and relationships... so if you've been questioning, just know that i won't be devastated any longer, you are free to go !"

Now you are doing THE OPPOSITE THING, LAV
 
L

lav

Guest
#13
#13
thank you secularhermit, i am okay. i am a hermit :)
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

Banned
#14
May 3, 2013
8,719
75
0
#14
breno785au said:
Hey man, I dont know whats happened to you but I feel like your pretty hurt by something or someone and you need to ask God to help you work through that because it will turn to bitterness one day. You say you only need God and not people this is the words of a hurt person who is thinking of themselves and seek a self serving lifestyle. I have seen it before with other people in my walk with God and its not Gods will. We all need each other. We are going to spend eteenity with the saints..better get used to it :)
Click to expand...

I agree on those BIG letters.
 
L

lav

Guest
#15
#15
ah, this doesn't need to be so dramatic i am sorry as i have made it !


i just felt snubbed by people recently/lately, and i thought it cathartic.


yes, i'm probably a nut...

DOING OKAY HERE< SORRY ! ! !

sometimes i feel unwelcome on the boards, but i have experienced a lot of love here too (especially in chat, other times on the boards... so sorry.) i felt the need to get it out, i guess it's better i didn't leave it stewing. all out in the open- is always me.

kindest regards to my real friends, i am sorry- i am not upset with you, please forgive me.
 
Last edited:
secularhermit

secularhermit

Banned
#16
May 3, 2013
8,719
75
0
#16
"" thank you secularhermit, i am okay. i am a hermit :) ""

But you hurt me!

I felt you left, and had no way to say "Hello, I miss you"... Now I hate you.

The more I hate you the more I love you.

But, now, I´m unsure about you. How could we sort this out? nor an apologize. That´s not the problem: Absency is the problem, that I missing you, and -as you can now it else where- when people feel ALONE that EMPTINESS IS FED FROM ANOTHER SOURCE...

Will you be willing to loose those friends? Will you be lost sight of those who were tender, SOFT, with you?

Don´t do that again!

Next time I would hit you with love (I don´t know it be more or less). I don´t know what I would do (They don´t either).

Missbehaving, LITTLE lady!

You haven´t grown up: That´s not the way.

Unless you are impersonating another CRAZY person I don´t know (for sure).
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

Banned
#17
May 3, 2013
8,719
75
0
#17
" and if i am remembered at all by anyone, after my passing. "

I don´t need to "remember you", but I wont take this seriusly...

Time will tell (by the way, you will need time FOR OTHERS). :p
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

Banned
#18
May 3, 2013
8,719
75
0
#18
" and i have every right to be the person i am and express myself as i see fit. "

Yes! The more you hurt, the more you get?

Good social experiement: You draw the "attention" of many member of CC.

Great! Well done!

Run & Hide, Antonio. That is UNKIND, by the way (but it´s not my business).

She is ALL RIGHT. :mad:
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

Banned
#19
May 3, 2013
8,719
75
0
#19
aRE YOU READING WaLTER rISO OR ANOTHER?

fINE! FINE!

Excuse me!

Bye! Bye!
 
L

lav

Guest
#20
#20
well how do we all need each other when we drop each other left and right for the silliest things without even asking.. and you thought you were 'friends' with that person ?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.