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OK, Tintin!

I declined.

That´s "HER" problem, not mine.
 
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it is software... but there is a soft and not hard heart over here, despite appearances.
 
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yes i wonder how many friends i lost or gained posting a picture of myself... that's why, there's none left !


pictures or certain friends.
and hopefully not friends because of
pictures. ew.

that was an attempt to be personal i will not submit to again.
 
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Sorry, LAV!

I need time.

Psa 15:1 A Psalm of David. O LORD, who shall sojourn in your tent? Who shall dwell on your holy hill?
Psa 15:2 He who walks blamelessly and does what is right and speaks truth in his heart;
Psa 15:3 who does not slander with his tongue and does no evil to his neighbor, nor takes up a reproach against his friend;
Psa 15:4 in whose eyes a vile person is despised, but who honors those who fear the LORD; who swears to his own hurt and does not change;
(...)

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it is software... but there is a soft and not hard heart over here, despite appearances.
That´s the one I loved, because I never reached you: I missed you...

Sorry again! :(
 
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alright, well... thank you. i probably shouldn't have posted, but sometimes i'm a loose cannon. i'm sorry as well.

and even though it looked like a dramatic plea for attention, i promise it was not intended that way. that i can say a yes to, that it was not... just been feeling a little under the weather lately and i can admit to making a mistake, but i at the same time feel the need to strive for authenticity.

yes, it hurt when some people dropped me here... and it hurt in a few other relationships not related to cc.... that happened this week when i was already a bit down.
 
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it looked like a dramatic plea for attention.

That´s what I thought, but i wanted you to "sense" what any would have felt when their "donkeys" were kick (the way you actually did).

I never planned to derail, I just wanted to give you the very same spoon you "fed us" with: REJECTION. :p

A thing we both know.
 
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Make NO promises!

I hope your "social" experiment had served you for anything: ALL have EQUAL free will to take and to leave.
 
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"but i at the same time feel the need to strive for authenticity."

That´s why I throw stones at you. I hope I had hit you with one. Now it´d be your time to make your adjustment.

Why having being so longly "hidden" from CC?
 
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yes, it hurt when some people dropped me here... and it hurt in a few other relationships not related to cc.... that happened this week when i was already a bit down.

I guess you haven´t read my blogs... Do you read, by the way? Ha! Ha!

Few weeks before, I felt desolé... I couldn´t go to see my children, and I missed the invitation Alex asked my to meet her on her birthday (Feb 14).

Besides, You would have been my Valentine. Ja! Ja! (1st day in my life I would celebrate that day with a person I like). Ha! Ha!

But now I am unsure on how you are, your mind, your gender, etc.

Not all torn! But somewhat screw up (and kicked in my "pants"). :p

You are not the only one, the earth will not miss US too much, ugly girl.
 

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thank you, i am quite alright spending eternity with the saints... it's only this world i must endure, if i am given such a
privilege. i appreciate your concern and see how you could detect bitterness. . . i'm not necessarily bitter, more just putting my armor on and growing up.

i will do my best to hold no resentment or bitterness and forgive whomever has hurt me, as God has forgiven me for my shortcomings.

it may sound a bit intense, but i think it's just a response to being to emotionally vulnerable and soft before, and for me it is actually something healthy.

i decline to comment further on this issue, as i owe no explanations or defenses for it.

may God bless you in all ways.
i am prepared for many judgements on this thread, as well as the many judgements that will be continually hurled at me until the day i die... and if i am remembered at all by anyone, after my passing.

i am perfectly fine and healthy, thank you.

and i have every right to be the person i am and express myself as i see fit.

all is forgiven, there is no bitterness here. it's just a plain fact that is probably not worded as softly and politically correct as i'm sure many people would like it...

and no, it's not about being selfish or self-involved to the degree i feel many will perceive it.
but, perceptions are just that perceptions... and everyone is entitled to their own.
I didn't say you have bitterness I said if you don't deal with the hurt it can lead to it sis :) And I don't want you to explain yourself to me, it's not required. I trust God will keep you as you walk with Him.
 
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it looked like a dramatic plea for attention.

That´s what I thought, but i wanted you to "sense" what any would have felt when their "donkeys" were kick (the way you actually did).

I never planned to derail, I just wanted to give you the very same spoon you "fed us" with: REJECTION. :p

A thing we both know.
But why? There was no need to escalate the situation.
 
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Let be warned!

LAV is not LAV (another imposter there)

That´s your porblem, not mine.

Goodbye "LAV"! it was another lesson I learnt.
 
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i was asleep.



yes the bible says don't make promises, but it does say just say a " yes " or a " no. " it also says to forgive your brother/sister seven times seventy.

i think this is quite enough.

i didn't realize something like this would be a kick to anyone in particular, all i wanted was to dismiss anyone else who felt like removing me for unknown reasons before they had to think about it any longer.

i considered just removing everyone from my list, but thought i should just try and scare away the ones who didn't really belong there and were just hanging around... as some had obviously thought i was, or started their account over just to avoid being 'friends' with me.

so no, this was not an attempt at drama, i don't think i really am someone who likes 'negative attention' in place of any attention at all.
i don't want to say sorry anymore.

if any more animosity occurs that is whomever's choice who chooses to display it and all their own. there's no need to keep on, as i've apologized more than once.

it's fine, i was simply opening the door for others who wanted to go.

i have over-explained and over-aplologized. this is enough. said it, did it, done.

i am sorry, that is enough. i forgive whatever has gone on, and i hold no illusions that i have any control ( nor do i want to ) over anyone else.
 
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and i am feeling more than silly at this point, so i think this really is quite enough. ( just to be perfectly clear. )