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I know what you mean. Everyone loves the nice guy, they just don't want to settle for him. He's too boring, too predictable and too reliable. Woman these days want excitement and the nice guy doesn't provide that. To bad really because by the time most woman are tired of excitement, all the nice guys are gone by women who already decided they've had enough excitement and all thats left are the real losers who don't care about anyone but themselves.
That's my observation anyway.
As for that whole bit overweight and kids issue. I'm concerned I wouldn't be able to cope. Here is this woman who has years of experience with her kids, knows every little quirk and facial expression. They have a life together, and then there is me. I'm nearly 30, have no kids of my own and its been years since I've had a reason to really think of anyone but myself. Just the difference in thought process is an enormous obstacle that both of us will likely not be able to climb over. Her because she'll eventually get tired of putting up with failure on my part and me because of the terror of failing both her and the kids.
Maybe this whole thing is just my selfish attitiude showing, and if so I apologize for that. As I said its been years since I've been with anyone. I'm kind of set in my mindset. Maybe one day that will change.
That's my observation anyway.
As for that whole bit overweight and kids issue. I'm concerned I wouldn't be able to cope. Here is this woman who has years of experience with her kids, knows every little quirk and facial expression. They have a life together, and then there is me. I'm nearly 30, have no kids of my own and its been years since I've had a reason to really think of anyone but myself. Just the difference in thought process is an enormous obstacle that both of us will likely not be able to climb over. Her because she'll eventually get tired of putting up with failure on my part and me because of the terror of failing both her and the kids.
Maybe this whole thing is just my selfish attitiude showing, and if so I apologize for that. As I said its been years since I've been with anyone. I'm kind of set in my mindset. Maybe one day that will change.
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this may sound wierd....but that would be music to my ears! what an adventure! I have always wanted exactly that...in a beautiful remote somewhere...with time, and great amounts of love...sounds perfect. There is very little room for the shallow in situations like that! and probably less distractions....I crave the quite beautiful places, that reqiure sacrifice, and character....and reward with adventure, and a slower pace
Haha, I would not be the least bit surprised if you were the exact person God picked for this type of service. After all, Moses wasn't big on public speaking but that didn't concern God one bit. In our weakness His strength is magnified.
2cor 12:9 And He said to me, " My grace is sufficent for you, for My strength is made perfect in your weakness."
I heard a sermon that actually said God doesn't pick a mate for you that will be your perfect match but one that will be strong in the areas where you need them to be but weak in areas that most disturb you. In that He breeding righteousness in you. That you may be perfect like your father. That in this you love someone who doesn't meet your conditions. I'll let that marinate for the ladies a minute.
Now, in defense of actual christian ladies to the guys out there. I know the type of women you are speaking of, and to speak plainly, they are worldly. As a christian, consider it a blessing from God that they don't take in pursuit of you. Any christian should first be drawn to a possible mate by God being manifest in their lives.
God Bless
2cor 12:9 And He said to me, " My grace is sufficent for you, for My strength is made perfect in your weakness."
I heard a sermon that actually said God doesn't pick a mate for you that will be your perfect match but one that will be strong in the areas where you need them to be but weak in areas that most disturb you. In that He breeding righteousness in you. That you may be perfect like your father. That in this you love someone who doesn't meet your conditions. I'll let that marinate for the ladies a minute.
Now, in defense of actual christian ladies to the guys out there. I know the type of women you are speaking of, and to speak plainly, they are worldly. As a christian, consider it a blessing from God that they don't take in pursuit of you. Any christian should first be drawn to a possible mate by God being manifest in their lives.
God Bless
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I would be excited! but i feel im called to full time ministry so I keep in mind that i may have a life like that so I wouldnt run. Not saying that i think it would be a piece of cake, cause it would def have its trying times. But with God and a loving husband by my side i could make it thro it all.
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Dearest one, your question is quite challenging, for we know the promises of the Lord,that we are to leave in abundance. But He also promises that if we are faithful in simple things, He will bestow us greater works to achieve, hence knowing our hearts.
Moreover, this will bring us to think if we have been that blinded by the world way of showing off, and forgotten the real joy of seeing someone saved, or someone else being comforted by our presence.
we ought to think about the peace and joy we have to when we rely on the Lord and go according to His wishes...
Cheers...
Moreover, this will bring us to think if we have been that blinded by the world way of showing off, and forgotten the real joy of seeing someone saved, or someone else being comforted by our presence.
we ought to think about the peace and joy we have to when we rely on the Lord and go according to His wishes...
Cheers...
