Dang reading these lists I have a lot to work on lol.
As for my own deal breakers, I am kinda simple:
1. Lady is not a virgin (not that I hate you if you are not, but merely I didn't put off sex so that I can fall for a woman that is all ready married to another man, and I define marriage as having sex with someone. Not gonna lie I am extremely jealous person in the realm of love interests and I somewhat expect a woman to be the same. Just as I think my ideal woman would not want me if I had sex with another woman prior to her so also I do not want a woman that has had sex with a man prior to me.)
2. Someone who is not direct/honest. What I mean by this is like how you goodly women are saying you want someone that will openly discuss and talk and not hide things/lie and thus theoretically we'd be able to solve any conflict simply through conversation. Some girls (and guys) like to play those annoying head games, and that is not what I desire. This isn't just a rule I have for potential dates, but also just for in-general-friendships. (Also just to clarify this directness is just on serious things. I wouldn't mind if a gal was a lil spontaneous or liked to pull pleasant surprises on me for instance birthday surprises, valentine's day spontaneity, etc. all that is okay to not be too direct so as not to ruin the goodly surpise. So when I mean someone who is not direct, I mean in terms of conversation about serious things. To sum it up; good surprises I like, bad surprises no thank you.)
3. Someone who is anti-Christian. Personally I am kinda new to the Bible and Christianity and am still learning, so if a girl isn't a Christian, that I do not mind so much since we could learn together. What I mean here by an anti-Christian girl is someone that is so totally against Christianity that they will never even give it a chance or they just constantly berate Jesus, the Bible, etc. Like I said I am kinda new to Christianity (not sure if I should even call myself a Christian, but I can say that I do like learning more about Christianity and it keeps giving me positive effects in my life so this is the religion I want to pursue.) So if a girl is like in that phase where I am where she just has genuine questions, then that is okay with me since we'd be on equal footing.
Besides these major factors, yes there are some little pet peeves I would have that are in common with what others have said here, but I personally am a pretty simple guy and since I have made many mistakes in my life anything besides the three above I can look past and we could work on together. For instance with smoking, I admit I am still a smoker (it's a very hard habit to kick!) So if I met a good gal that is a smoker that be okay with me, but I also am trying to kick the habit and don't want to be a smoker all my life, so if that girl is a smoker I would at least desire her to at least want to quit at some point in her life and maybe we could work on that problem together (though I personally am gonna try to kick smoking before seeking a mate because it seems all you good girls do not like smokers (and I thank you all for that cause it helps motivate me) lol so this might not be a big issue in the future.)
I think really what a lot of these lists can boil down to is that old sage advice Paul left us about being equally yoked. Basically I have many flaws right now so if a girl has the same flaws, that's okay with me because we're still equal and thus can either be content with our mutual flaws or help eachother as a team to overcome. If a girl transgresses the 3 Points above then we would not be equals, thus we would not be a good match and I'd probably just be better off being single, lol.
I also include drinking alcohol, even one, as I am avidly against drinking alcohol; no smoking anything...except for meats 
