Easy going? or Mysterious?

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butterflame

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So who do find interesting? Someone who's jolly and easy going? Or a mysterious one but can throw jokes too?
 
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tibi

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I think a person can be both. I like a little mystery when they are relaxed and easy going along with it. It tells me they are not actually trying to be mysterious - it's just natural.
 
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butterflame

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I think a person can be both. I like a little mystery when they are relaxed and easy going along with it. It tells me they are not actually trying to be mysterious - it's just natural.


engkkkkk... only one answer..can't be both lol
 
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zaoman32

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mystery ticks me off!!!!

danged women....
 
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ji

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So who do find interesting? Someone who's jolly and easy going? Or a mysterious one but can throw jokes too?
not both,but someone who can correct me with Compassion like Jesus..
 
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Mysterious may be more interesting, but I'd choose easy-going for an actual relationship where I need to spend time with them. ;)
 
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Ugly

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The catch to mysterious is eventually the mystery will wear off. And when that happens you may find you don't like what was behind the mystery all along.
Also, who wants to be in a relationship with someone they feel like they never really know?
 
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I suppose it depends on the person. Some people really try hard to make jokes and it just doesn't work well while other people come off as too mysterious. Personally, someone who is jolly and easy-going because it makes getting to know them easier. If someone is constantly mysterious, it's hard to get to know them.
 
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I suppose it depends on the person. Some people really try hard to make jokes and it just doesn't work well while other people come off as too mysterious. Personally, someone who is jolly and easy-going because it makes getting to know them easier. If someone is constantly mysterious, it's hard to get to know them.
Brandon: Presumably testimony is to be communicated, right? :)
 
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butterflame

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So far, I can see good responses but very well, everyone's comment is cool! Haha. I think I'd like both! Wahahaha. Sorry guys I'm the only one who's permitted to vote for both. LOL. :D
 
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Animus

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I think there is something very anti-mystery about being too uneasy going. If someone is always on edge they don't come across as mysterious as much as paranoid or upset.
 
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Wandering_Here

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Easy-going, no contest!
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Mysterious can be intriguing at first, but a person can't sustain that for the long haul.

Easy going.
 

just_monicat

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in my experience, many of the "mysterious" folks i've met are simply easy going people who are introverts that aren't as easy to get to know.

but often, those people are well worth the trouble to get to know. i tend to be drawn to easy-going folks, rather than high-strung personalities.

i have little patience for people who are deliberately mysterious or withholding.