Hello Woodartdon. We all know that these things go on in all churches, what ever religion, faiths, or beliefs you are currently serving at. and without realizing, you could be painting a broad picture and many people may take offense. It would be wise for you not to get caught up in there doings if they are doing wrong. Let God deal with them, but love them in God's love and focus on your own journey. yes you will see many agreements and disagreements no matter church you go to. You tell me were is a perfect church? and I will go to it. Let God deal with each person individually, and you concentrate on your own journey with God.
Pastors, deacons, leaders, elders or what ever titles they have, have one common thing with you all, It's called being human, not everyone can be right all the time, and of course as you kn ow, we ALL make mistakes, so if a pastor is somewhat making you anger, then wouldn't be better to pull him aside, and have a quiet word, not to express your anger, but to share your anger and reasons why you are angry? If you believe in God's wisdom, he will give you the right words to say and even ask. but at least then you are therefore approaching the situation a more Godly way, rather talking behind his back on a Christian website.
God is a good God, people should trust him once in a while, don't you think? Even though that pastors, deacons, leaders and elders all have titles, they are still our brothers in Christ. A few scriptures to ponder over:
Luke 17:3 Pay attention to yourselves! If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him,
Matthew 18:15 If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.
Luke 17:4 And if he sins against you seven times in the day, and turns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive him.
Just a few scriptures for you to ponder over. God bless. I hope there can be peace between you and your pastor.