I think there is some very poor communication going on about this. Generally when a person says, "white people" or "black people" or "Asian people" they are referring to the majority of people in the group. The same problem in communication happens all the time in discussions about men and women.
"Women are attracted to apathy", I suspect many women that just read that thought, "Not true, I'm not attracted to apathy". But the person who makes that claim doesn't doubt that there are exceptions, but rather that they don't make the original claim an exercise in irrelevance. Poor communication? Yes. And even if it isn't true, it's usually not addressed for what it really is, and so both sides start arguing. The women are arguing that it isn't true for everyone, and the man is arguing that it is true for most, and neither side realizes that they aren't talking about the same thing. If they were talking about the same thing, they might still disagree, but it would be a very different discussion.