First of all I would like to apologize to Eternally-gratefull for my sarcastic remark.
Secondly as was written, man must be born of water and of spirit in order to enter the kingdom: I can see all the differing understandings to that verse. Born of water can mean given God's grace, can also mean regeneration through baptism, can also mean flesh of Abraham; and born of spirit can mean given God's HS, can mean renewal of His spirit daily as an ongoing gift.
And through out history it appears there is much debate as to it having only one meaning and who's understanding of that meaning is the proper one.
Let me just say this, First off, God promises to give everyone, EVERYONE, a measure of Saving Faith. Everyone. Both Unbelievers and believers. It was poured out on the day of Penticost. It's in some when they are first conceived in the womb, some when they are born from their mother, and some later on. God wills His HS on each of us When He decides. He causes us to believe according to His good will and purpose for us. Praise the Lord.
When I was baptized (poured water on my head three times to signify Father Son and HS), also known as the Water and the Word, yes the water is nothing without the Word (spirit of God) but with the Word that water is powerful. Scoff not... My parents and God parents prayed to the Good Lord to give me His Holy spirit to work a Saving Faith in my heart for my salvation during my baptism. I didn't know what was going on, but God sure did and so did all the witnesses. Then I was taught the word from that moment. Words of God's grace from the lips of believers(my mother, the minister, etc) memorized from their learning - to my ears and God's Spirit effecting a regeneration and renewal in me. (faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the Word) Now when did I first believe? Ask God cause it was so long ago I don't remember and it's not important to me when, but to God I'm sure it is. I was confirmed in the church when I was fourteen but I'm quite sure I was a believer long before that. (Suffer the little children to come onto me for of such is the kingdom of God). Have I sinned and backslid since then? Surely. That's why it's so important to hear the Word daily so the HS can renew my heart daily, it goes hand in hand. And the understanding comes as the spirit matures me.
What I can't understand or am confused about is ok, because the HS understands for me. As I listen to all of your posts it's a blessing to me. You know the bible don't tell us everything Jesus said to Nicodemus. Paul said for now I know in part, but then I shall see clearly. Is it ok if for now, I know in part even if some of you think you see clearly?