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Well I use to think the same thing ... but in my situation I use to be bad but I stopped everything everything thats when I became a Christian ... and some guys are like that they claim to be Christians but behind closed doors they not but us Christians can't judge them for that we gotta do what we are suppose to help people become Christians .. also dont go looking for guys let them come to u God will send one your way u gotta pay attention closely we that walk in Christian life do what God says so listen when God says its okay then u know thats the one ... thats the best advice I can give just walk in faith it will come
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I know if you trust in Jesus for your salavation and are led of the spirit you are free from the law. Galatians 5. Jesus also said to strive to enter the kingdom of god. I know that Rome was not build in a day either it is a process. Bible say to be carnal minded is death. A lot of people say "I am a Christian" but day after day they listen to Snoop and Ozzy all day. Are they carnal minded. Did I say there was no way they could go to heaven? No, but I am saying change. They have preachers in churches that are homosexual that say "I am a homosexual". He is held at a higher standard than all of us. How would people know what is wrong if nobody told them what is wrong. It is good to know what is wrong to do. There for after galatians he was still saying and reminding them things that we are not suppost to do. But I know that nobody does everything that is written in the whole bible. I am justified by faith in Christ. I believe this is his grace. Let me put it this way that when I am playing and I play almost everyday. When I walk up to a shoot I tell myself I got it every time I got this never will I miss. When I first started I was terrible. But I am pretty good now. Do I every think that I will master the game and never miss a shot, no. I strive to get better. Same with righteous. If I only play 1 hour a week and did not even think of the fundamentals I would not say I was striving to get better. I think in most churches they still have you get saved baptized and take the blood and body. Examine yourself before you take the blood and body(wine unleavened bread). You do not want to sick and sleepy and drink damnation to yourself. I didn`t know this nobody told me not to drink it unworthy. I am good now.
Hello everyone this is my first thread! I wanted to ask a quick question. See I'm 24 and I consider myself to be a good girl. I hardly go out, I've never been inside a club, don't drink, smoke or do any drugs and I'm a virgin. I try to hold myself accountable for my actions and I know that anything I say and do is reflected on God because when nonbelievers see and talk to me, I have to represent Christ to them. If they were to see me drink for example, that wouldn't be a great reflection of our heavenly Father.
Anyways, I am humble about all this. I'm actually very shy and have always had a hard time making friends. I just find it kinda upsetting that most guys seem to not like me as more than a friend. I am fit and I try to look my best but it still doesn't work. I don't mean to sound proud but I do feel I am a good person. At least I try to be. It's just so disheartening when I meet a Christian guy who is sweet with me but never takes it further than friendship.
Like I got really close to this one guy we'll call him David at church. He had a girlfriend at the time and he was always complaining about how she was materialistic, a non-believer and very selfish. But then he would talk about how pretty she was and how he knew he was going to change her someday. I on the other hand tried to show him that maybe he could be happy with me. But it never worked. I even opened up to him about me saving myself for marriage and he didn't even care! I never told him I liked him but I did become his friend, hoping that maybe he would see what a great girl I am
lol yeah right!
Later on I found out he was sleeping with this girlfriend of his and that he would go clubbing and drinking. I really cared about this guy. I just don't know what to think anymore. I'm so hurt that the Christian men that I have found are not really living the Christian life. Are there any real Christian men out there who would really cherish a virtuous wife? Because to me it doesn't seem that way.
But of course I will always stick to my morals even if I remain single for the rest of my life. I just find it hurtful to think it might not happen.
Anyways, I am humble about all this. I'm actually very shy and have always had a hard time making friends. I just find it kinda upsetting that most guys seem to not like me as more than a friend. I am fit and I try to look my best but it still doesn't work. I don't mean to sound proud but I do feel I am a good person. At least I try to be. It's just so disheartening when I meet a Christian guy who is sweet with me but never takes it further than friendship.
Like I got really close to this one guy we'll call him David at church. He had a girlfriend at the time and he was always complaining about how she was materialistic, a non-believer and very selfish. But then he would talk about how pretty she was and how he knew he was going to change her someday. I on the other hand tried to show him that maybe he could be happy with me. But it never worked. I even opened up to him about me saving myself for marriage and he didn't even care! I never told him I liked him but I did become his friend, hoping that maybe he would see what a great girl I am
lol yeah right! Later on I found out he was sleeping with this girlfriend of his and that he would go clubbing and drinking. I really cared about this guy. I just don't know what to think anymore. I'm so hurt that the Christian men that I have found are not really living the Christian life. Are there any real Christian men out there who would really cherish a virtuous wife? Because to me it doesn't seem that way.
But of course I will always stick to my morals even if I remain single for the rest of my life. I just find it hurtful to think it might not happen.
I would like to tell you that the world will change overnight and that the majority of people will recognize the value in living a life like you live, but you know as well as I do that I'd be lying. However, just because the majority don't seem to want to live the life you live, that does not mean that there are not people who do.
It seems so difficult when we are immersed in something we don't inherently agree with.
This young man you talk about, David we'll call him; he's fallen for a materialistic girl who he believes he can change. I used to be the materialistic guy that girl's thought they could change, so I know that not one of them ever could have changed me if I didn't want to change myself.
He will have to deal with the realization that he's fallen for a girl who does not want to live the life he supposedly wants to live, just as you may be dealing with the fact that he has given up his values and lives a life that you don't want him to live.
Try to recognize that he will suffer needlessly for that. You of all people should know how he will feel, because currently, you feel that way too - wanting somebody for a chaste and pure life, who does not live by that life currently.
You and him are in one and the same position.
The difference is you have yet to compromise your values. This is the choice you face, and the result of any choice you make is a result you will have to deal with.
Just let me assure you that someone who wants to live a life like yours is valuable in my eyes.
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Ok, I see a lil of me as a younger adult in u..... sweetheart, its gonna end up in regrets.... u don't need to feel insecure, (if u are). Now that u are young, u should strongly give God your youth. Marriage will surely come if u desire it. But right now, throw away your insecurities and be that god who was made in the image of her Father, God.
The bible says "Seek ye FIRST the kingdom of God and HIS righteousness, AND ALL THESE THINGS SHALL BE ADDED UNTO YOU...."
God is surely a rewarder of those who diligently seek HIM.
LOVE YA.. XO
The bible says "Seek ye FIRST the kingdom of God and HIS righteousness, AND ALL THESE THINGS SHALL BE ADDED UNTO YOU...."
God is surely a rewarder of those who diligently seek HIM.
LOVE YA.. XO
A touching feeling I got from this. Can I help hmm I am a guy and I could get really mad these guys are really stupid, any time I ask guys I'm close to such as family wealthy people. They never can speak words relatable. If you want to get a guy these days you need to just work. Most these guys are into a status from working a lot. They don't have deep conversations, have you heard of far out? Oh and those eccentric guys that you see them insult someone don't crush on them. Usually the type of guy that uses the word troll to people they don't like. Let me tell you about them, they never take anything seriously, you will find a lot of guys can't be that serious as someone who has this gift to talk too and worship god. You realize how unique are? You haven't notice your gift yet, it will grow and needs a lot of love. Believe in the word of god.
