Who Killed the Singles Forum, Anyway?

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I shouldn't have made my original post. I have no intention of explaining myself. Sorry, folks.
 
The spirit in the room has definitely changed lately. As I have listened the last few nights to a few of the conversations, I have found several to be sadly offensive. Some have been judgmental and hurtful, while others were simply arguments for the sake of arguments. I understand even in the short time I have been going into the singles room that the dynamic at times has centered around a few specific people. Unfortunately, the room will not work in the long run if that remains the case.

Over time people will come and go, and yes some of the singles in the room will get married. The people who go into the singles chat room need to continue to focus on fellowship and lifting each other up, because somehow over the last few weeks that has seemed to stop. When I first started going in the room, at least once a night I would hear a single pray for another single, but I haven't heard any of that in awhile. Just commiserating over bad experiences.
 
The spirit in the room has definitely changed lately. As I have listened the last few nights to a few of the conversations, I have found several to be sadly offensive. Some have been judgmental and hurtful, while others were simply arguments for the sake of arguments. I understand even in the short time I have been going into the singles room that the dynamic at times has centered around a few specific people. Unfortunately, the room will not work in the long run if that remains the case.

Over time people will come and go, and yes some of the singles in the room will get married. The people who go into the singles chat room need to continue to focus on fellowship and lifting each other up, because somehow over the last few weeks that has seemed to stop. When I first started going in the room, at least once a night I would hear a single pray for another single, but I haven't heard any of that in awhile. Just commiserating over bad experiences.

We can definitely work on that. :)
 
i'm still here?..

i just dont appear very often..
give me a reason to :P.


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This place is like a ghost town. Most of the time.

What happened? Did I miss the rapture? Have y'all run oft and dun got hitched? Did I survive some nuclear war I didn't know about?

What are your theories on where everyone's gone?


Note: Yes, I get the irony of creating a thread to ask people who aren't here where they went. It's supposed to be silly.
...anybody out there? I feel like Will Smith in I Am Legend...
:p

Well as a newbie, I'd rather to be here but being the old man (51) the majority of post are kind of juvenile and not having much substance. So I am mostly in the Bible Forum although that gets old too, as its not really a discussion there but more fighting and pickering.
So I am floating around.
 
Well as a newbie, I'd rather to be here but being the old man (51) the majority of post are kind of juvenile and not having much substance. So I am mostly in the Bible Forum although that gets old too, as its not really a discussion there but more fighting and pickering.
So I am floating around.

The best thing to do if you're not enjoying many of the threads is to start writing your own! :) We love seeing new ideas and topics for discussion here... Will be looking forward to hopefully seeing some threads from you soon. :)
 
I shouldn't have made my original post. I have no intention of explaining myself. Sorry, folks.


Boooooooooooo Hisssssssssssssssssssssssss. lol I was dying to find out what you were gonna say Aimee. Was it my narcissism that did it??? :p 'Cause I have no qualms about taking the hit for it's demise.
 
Well as a newbie, I'd rather to be here but being the old man (51) the majority of post are kind of juvenile and not having much substance. So I am mostly in the Bible Forum although that gets old too, as its not really a discussion there but more fighting and pickering.
So I am floating around.

d00d, don b messin wit me!

lik it sayz, u must all luvs eech otherz liek I luvs u. n we luvs eech otherz like woah. kthnksbi.
 
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My contribution to this thread.
That is the answer to almost every "who done it" question.

I'm not in the forums as much because I think I have enlightened those of you misogynistic heathens who care to listen. The rest of you are beyond hope and you have my pity.
[please read the above in a ridiculous, pompous, Buzz-Lightyear-like voice.:)]

Really, I have been working on proofreading and editing projects, going to college full-time, parenting, and trying to give my son a decent summer. I have 4 forums that I have to keep up with for college credit, so this one, sadly, must take lower priority until I get that stupid piece of paper that proves I am edjumukated.

I am on livechat every night that I am not staying with family or traveling. Though, we keep getting spill-over from other nameless chatrooms that commandeer the conversation instead of integrating into it. [you know who you are.]
In those instances, the sane ones generally find solace elsewhere.
 
NEWSFLASH: I have just been informed that the reason this forum has died is due to my flooding it with "inane topics that are boring and pointless". Also, that I have "done little but complain about life", and "shown no desire to engage with the few people who take pity" on me.

Well then. Mystery solved.

Honestly, if people feel that way, please feel free to say so openly. If I am being "self-centered in posts", I apologize.

I'm aware that most of the threads I've started have been mainly based off of things going on in my world. I'm also aware that they've not been everybody's cup of tea. At any rate, I absolutely never intended to make everything about Me all the time, and I'm sincerely sorry if that's part of the problem here.

Just thought I'd put this out here because...if one person feels this way, I'm sure others do too.

Um...that awkward moment when....? Yeah. Carry on...