Thanks, Lady!
You are right! you gave me the answer:
DISCERMENT. It was my fault and, what bothered me (in past) it was their attitude, their selfishness way to obtain things, just for them.
In fact, I was feeeling GUILT... I´ll be no more. I´m somewhat used to live a day after another and
it´s up to GOD to teach them what they don´t want to see.
I already spoke to his brother (who is another pastor) so my immediate detachment from "
the mala paga" will be guessed and understood.
I will pray for them (I will ask those things) but I will harden my heart.
Thanks ladybug.
Brother, I understand how you feel in this. her done that and if I had all pay me back, I but i would be a million-air
Oh wait just a minute Brother, you do believe God right?
Then you are a Million-air?
Don't beleive me do you? what if I took you to the bank and showed you?
tell me would you go to the teller there and ask how to withdraw whatever you needed? Or would you just withdraw as to what is needed for that day? This Million + is in you, God who gives and gave everything you need for life and Godliness
So before draw and give discern, and if give leave it behind you. If get back, praise God if not praise God
Whatever you have given away is whatever you have given away, once it leaves your hands, and think on this wise maybe, Give what you have; not what you don't have, give willingly, without expectation in return
2 Cor 8,9,10, pretty clear on the art of giving.
Now to discern it correctly. We can't give to all, can we? So left with discerning who where what and how much? And this goes deeper that just money, or materialistic things, wisdom God's most important you think?
So look at the story of the rich man and Lazarus in Luke 16. What do you see while you read it?
The rich man went to hell why?
Lazarus Heaven and now cared for eternity
Was Lazarus placed at the gate to the rich man's house? Did the rich man have any other choice but to notice Lazarus?
So did God place Lazarus at this rich man's gate to take care of Lazarus?
Did the rich man listen to God in this, and take care of Lazarus?
So why did this rich man go to hell, for not taking care of Lazarus or not listening to God?
So take care of who God places at your gate, you can't take care of everyone else, only those that God places at your gate.
Learn God's voice Brother, learn for the enemy can place enemies at your gate as well,
Remember King Nebuchadnezzar, had to chew the cud off the ground for what 11 years, before he converted.
So sometimes feeding others and giving them a place to rest is not always what is supposed to be, so
seek out Father in discernment, and do as led. not as you think you are to be in front of others and give to those that use and abuse you, that put on good shows, and are not do not belong to God only say they do to get what they want for here and now
What does it profit anyone to gain the whole world and lose their own soul?
Discern without a hardened heart over others that manipulate you, learn from this
I loane a lot of money on a certain time and got paid back in intervals, yet not all of it. Was asked for more, and I did not have it, so no more went to them. And then they stopped paying, using God's grace towards me to forgive them and one time said to me it is my fault that I loaned them the money.
you know they are right, so I sought from Father to be wiser in future, and know when to hold them and when to fold them.
I wrote them Debt paid in full, as God told me he has done for me, so I wrote it off. I don't have the access to money as I did, back then, and truithfully I am learned and learning to be much more happy as a Lazarus over a rich man of this world, seeing being a Lazarus I am richer than any riches here of this world
For God told you God will supply all your needs right? Has God ever failed you in this, you are still here today right?
God fulfills all God's promises.
So give if you have, and not if you do not have. And do it cheerfully, if not cheerfully without any return, then do not give, for you would be right back here where you are right now
Praying Brother you get this with that loving heart you have been given in seeing others that do not have it, that do a great job masquerading as if they do have the love of God
A tree is always identified by its fruit, and these that you gave to, are showing what fruit is there tree, and so know truth from this and learn the voice of God as Abraham did, and that took about 29 years for him to know without a doubt. so learn and continue to learn from any and all circumstances, pray so as I see you will
Love to you, and prayers to you to be able by Faith in Christ to live above these and all troubles you get in this world