friends list gone for no reason
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I know, for me, i clear out my 'friends' list whenever i think it's bloated by people who have disappeared, rarely come on or that i have nothing to do with. A large friends list means nothing to me. It doesn't prove anything about who you are, it only proves you have a large number of people willing to accept your invite. Which means nothing because i get invites from people i've never seen before. Unless these people were close friends who suddenly and without warning abandoned you then who cares?
J
Don't be upset. There are many reasons why people want a list, or don't want a friendship list. My reason is this, and it is nothing to hide, as it is from my heart. I befriend people who the HOly Spirit directs me to, that I don't need to know them personally, but I pray for them, on a consistent basis, and know we are connected as a spiritual family in within the Love of our Father. This is my reason. There are other reasons, that have strings attached, if you don't talk to me, bingo, you might be gone, with all the people here, it would be pressured, and almost as peer pressure, or a clique, to keep up with, in communicating with all. To each his own, to me it's a spiritual call to pray for the ones the Lord sends. Talk to Jesus, he is your best friend, and I love you in his love too. 
Kalyna *
Kalyna *
Isn't it ironic? (by Alanis Morisette. I'm singing it while writing What better situation to be in, to be deleted in friend's list or not to be added? I sent some friends request but until now I'm not being added.
What better situation to be in, to be deleted in friend's list or not to be added? I sent some friends request but until now I'm not being added.
Friendship has to be built, nurtured and, too often many people could find themself as left or abandoned.
Instead, being a friend from THE UNSEEN you are free to interact with whomever you wanted, in public eyes, and it´s obvious we have things "to hide" or to get limited access.