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I just been deleted for no reason by 4 people and now I'm more sad and I hope for the new people they will add me I just wanna be awesome awesome awesome like Harpy and a few others : (

Rockinman2010 You are one of the most awesome people I know buddy. Keep you head held up high. I love ya, and so does Jesus.

Your sister in Christ,
Shelly
 
I know, for me, i clear out my 'friends' list whenever i think it's bloated by people who have disappeared, rarely come on or that i have nothing to do with. A large friends list means nothing to me. It doesn't prove anything about who you are, it only proves you have a large number of people willing to accept your invite. Which means nothing because i get invites from people i've never seen before. Unless these people were close friends who suddenly and without warning abandoned you then who cares?
 
You are welcome RockinMan! A list is just a list. I would be your friend no matter how many people you have on there because I know you for the beautiful Godly man that you are.

Love ya bud (Best friend hugs)

Shelly
 
Don't be upset. There are many reasons why people want a list, or don't want a friendship list. My reason is this, and it is nothing to hide, as it is from my heart. I befriend people who the HOly Spirit directs me to, that I don't need to know them personally, but I pray for them, on a consistent basis, and know we are connected as a spiritual family in within the Love of our Father. This is my reason. There are other reasons, that have strings attached, if you don't talk to me, bingo, you might be gone, with all the people here, it would be pressured, and almost as peer pressure, or a clique, to keep up with, in communicating with all. To each his own, to me it's a spiritual call to pray for the ones the Lord sends. Talk to Jesus, he is your best friend, and I love you in his love too. :) Kalyna :)*
 
I just been deleted for no reason by 4 people and now I'm more sad and I hope for the new people they will add me I just wanna be awesome awesome awesome like Harpy and a few others : (

Isn't it ironic? (by Alanis Morisette. I'm singing it while writing :) What better situation to be in, to be deleted in friend's list or not to be added? I sent some friends request but until now I'm not being added. :(
 
Isn't it ironic? (by Alanis Morisette. I'm singing it while writing :) What better situation to be in, to be deleted in friend's list or not to be added? I sent some friends request but until now I'm not being added. :(


jer, I added you. :)
 
Isn't it ironic? (by Alanis Morisette. I'm singing it while writing :) What better situation to be in, to be deleted in friend's list or not to be added? I sent some friends request but until now I'm not being added. :(

Why do you think you are not noticed or added, JER? (I said JER)

Friendship has to be built, nurtured and, too often many people could find themself as left or abandoned.

Instead, being a friend from THE UNSEEN you are free to interact with whomever you wanted, in public eyes, and it´s obvious we have things "to hide" or to get limited access.
 
I just been deleted for no reason by 4 people and now I'm more sad and I hope for the new people they will add me I just wanna be awesome awesome awesome like Harpy and a few others : (


sucks to be deleted. i *never* delete anyone for this reason, but for the rare occasion someone gets creepy or i find them obtusely abrasive.
 
Secular hermit will only send me PMs but won't accept my friend request... So don't feel bad :P
 
sucks to be deleted. i *never* delete anyone for this reason, but for the rare occasion someone gets creepy or i find them obtusely abrasive.

I believe that the more friends one has the least significant each one becomes.
 
Why do you think you are not noticed or added, JER? (I said JER)

Friendship has to be built, nurtured and, too often many people could find themself as left or abandoned.

Instead, being a friend from THE UNSEEN you are free to interact with whomever you wanted, in public eyes, and it´s obvious we have things "to hide" or to get limited access.

I guess Im not noticed because sometimes I don't read notification and overlook them. or very busy and don't have enough time to read all replies. Or for personal preference.