Come now brothers/sisters, we're here to help each other, not rip each other limb from limb. Haha..
I think on Romans 12:2 for situations such as this.
"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God."
We, as Christians, ought to preserve ourselves for what God has for us. We should devote ourselves to shaping our own lives around His will for each of us.
As far as music goes, I know one kind of music that is pure and holy, and that's old fashioned gospel singing. Contemporary Christian albums tend to have, well, conformed to how the world's songs sound. Sure the message in the lyrics might be good. (Amen for good lyrics!) But as Christians shouldn't we be uplifting music that conforms NOT unto the world?
Ephesians 5:11* tells us to reprove the "unfruitful works of darkness," so ought we not to keep ourselves to that which is holy?
And let me end with, none of us are perfect. I know I'm WAYYY far from perfect, but we all do need to know what's right for us as Christians.
Hope I did help.
Your friend,
Moose.
*Ephesians 5:11
"And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them ."