The Taller Woman /Shorter Guy and other Shallow Filters

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Rachel20

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Hey everyone.

Just a question - one directed towards the guys - would you date a woman who is taller than yourself?
And to the ladies - would you date a man shorter than you?

My question stems from a personal interest.

I am reasonably tall. I measured a decent 5'7 and a half and was still growing until my worried grandma started praying fervently that I should NOT grow any taller.

Her reason? I would not find it easy to get married. I do find myself taller than most men or at least the same height.

When I was at New York, I had my height measured again, and interestingly I measured a 5'9. I am not sure if I grew taller (is it possible to still grow at the age of 21?) or I was measured incorrectly.

Most likely the latter. It made me laugh just imagining how horrified my grandma would be.

However it IS TRUE that MOST(not all) Indian men , at least in the marriage market don't prefer too tall women. For them a lady who is 5'3 is probably ideal. This is from personal experience, with cousins getting married as well as classmates.

5'9 or 5'8 might be tall in the Indian society, but I am pretty sure it's average in some European countries.

Honestly, I like being tall. I wish I could grow taller and if some guy doesn't want to be with me coz he might be shorter - then my response is "like whatever".
Whether or not I am taller, I especially enjoy wearing heels. That increases my height by 2-3 inches anyway.

Would I ever marry a guy who is shorter? Absolutely. If his heart is in the right place, honestly it doesn't matter to me.

What about you guys? Please be honest.


People do have shallow filters in their selection criteria. For example today, the morning radio show host declared she would never date a person who had the same name as her parents...

We have 7 billion people in the planet. We do need filters. :)
 
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5'9 pffft, that's not tall. I am just shy of 6'

short tall meh wouldn't bother me.
 

Rachel20

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5'9 pffft, that's not tall. I am just shy of 6'

short tall meh wouldn't bother me.

Ok hi 5!

Shallow filters should be met with shallow feelings. :p

And excuse me 5'9 is pretty tall. -___- It's taller than a Great Dane. So pffft to you.
 
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5'9 isn't tall to me. I have seen females that have been 6' up to 6'4"
5'9" is just a touch above the avg of 5'7"
 
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Tintin

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Would I ever date a woman who was taller than I am? In all honesty, probably not. But I'd also be hard pressed to find one who was taller than me, around my age-range and single. I'm 196cm, that's around 6'5. I wouldn't be dating anyway, I'm in a relationship.
 

Rachel20

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5'9 isn't tall to me. I have seen females that have been 6' up to 6'4"
5'9" is just a touch above the avg of 5'7"

I did mention that in the OP -It could be average in some European countries.. matter of perspective.

And btw, 5'7 is not the average in the USA.


(Though if you want me to admit I am a midget. I will :D. But it's my dream of being rejected by most Indian men so I can ride a harley davidson in the mountains with my dog)
 

Rachel20

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Would I ever date a woman who was taller than I am? In all honesty, probably not. But I'd also be hard pressed to find one who was taller than me, around my age-range and single. I'm 196cm, that's around 6'5. I wouldn't be dating anyway, I'm in a relationship.


That's it. You're stamped shallow.

Naaah JK.

Though it's really cool you're 6'5. I wish I could be too :)
 
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I did mention that in the OP -It could be average in some European countries.. matter of perspective.

And btw, 5'7 is not the average in the USA.

(Though if you want me to admit I am a midget. I will :D. But it's my dream of being rejected by most Indian men so I can ride a harley davidson in the mountains with my dog)
depends where you look for the avg. where I am 5'7" is about the norm. as for the harley... me personally ill stay away from that, it would be nice but we got to many stupid people behind the wheel of a 4 wheel auto.
 

Roh_Chris

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It is not the height per se, it is how we look together as a couple. If she is tall and athletic-build, then it is perfectly fine with me. Also, what matters is her personality. If she can be subject to me in the godly way, then I have no problem. Guys prefer shorter girls because they don't want to look together as 'momma and her son'. Some girls want taller guys so they can lean on his shoulder, look up at him, blah blah.

I speak from experience because I am 5'5 1/2 and I dated a girl who was 5'8". Her height did not matter to me. We invited a lot of stares, but between us it never mattered.
 
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Tintin

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That's it. You're stamped shallow.

Naaah JK.

Though it's really cool you're 6'5. I wish I could be too :)
Haha! Classic. There are pros and cons to being tall too. I'd struggle to date really short women. Luckily Arlene is 5'6. It would be pretty crazy if she were my height!
 

Rachel20

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Haha! Classic. There are pros and cons to being tall too. I'd struggle to date really short women. Luckily Arlene is 5'6. It would be pretty crazy if she were my height!

Oh wow.

Something cute


5'6 | 6'5

Look mirror images!!!!!!!!!! (not quite, but reversible)

Ok is it mean to ask how are door frames in Australia?
 

Rachel20

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depends where you look for the avg. where I am 5'7" is about the norm. as for the harley... me personally ill stay away from that, it would be nice but we got to many stupid people behind the wheel of a 4 wheel auto.
I'll just have to get a dog sled.
 
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Keith urban is much shorter than Nicole. You need a Keith urban!
 

Rachel20

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Keith urban is much shorter than Nicole. You need a Keith urban!

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.


I like country music. I never heard Keith Urban.


I am not being shallow.

But just no :p
 
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Donkeyfish07

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I'm really short for a man and actually prefer taller ladies. I went out with a girl that was shorter than me not too long ago tho, first time ever and to be honest.....it felt reaaaally weird to me. So out of place, lol....but I liked her. We weren't compatible and we parted ways but it wasn't because I felt weird about her being shorter. Taller than me is just a preference, not an absolute necessity.
 
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.


I like country music. I never heard Keith Urban.


I am not being shallow.

But just no :p
if I was a girl and single I would have Keith urban posters on my wall. :p
 
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Tintin

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Oh wow.

Something cute


5'6 | 6'5

Look mirror images!!!!!!!!!! (not quite, but reversible)

Ok is it mean to ask how are door frames in Australia?
Thanks, mate. ;) I'm not sure of the exact height of door frames in Australia. In my house, the door frames are around 2m tall but I've noticed that many houses have slightly shorter door frames here. I have to watch out for door ways in older houses and at camp sites though. Also, ceiling fans are often a problem for me, especially when they're turned on in Summer - some are especially low.
 
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ChandlerFan

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If I clicked with a woman who was taller than me, I would not let her height detract me. I guess that's the simplest way to put it.
 

Rachel20

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if I was a girl and single I would have Keith urban posters on my wall. :p

Ewwwww.


If I were a girl (yes I am ), I would have this guy.

SOOO HANDSOME <3 <3


 

ChandlerFan

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Oh, I should also add that I'm 6'0 so I'm not really worried about having this problem haha.