would you date you if your were the opp. sex

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sweetheart728

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ok so earlier i posted a thread titled WOULD YOU DATE YOU.... but i dont think everybody understood what i was asking so ill post it again =)

if you were a memeber of the opp. sex would you date you....

ik like...
im a female...
but IF i was a male would i date a female exactly like me?
once again be honest people... be honest
lolz
 
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PenguChuck

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Noob, quit changing the rules of engagement.

Even if I was a girl, and was EXACTLY like I am now. Once again, I'd have to say NO. (View other topic for reason why)

And OP, if your going to start something like this, its wise to jump start the topic by first ansering the question you posted. :/
 
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faithfuljy

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Yes, I would. Not because I think I'm great or anything arrogant like that, but because I could trust me. I know I have alot to offer as a Christian woman, even with my flaws :) It's about having self-respect and being confident, but not being stuck on your self. You should be a reflection of what you are looking for in someone of the opposite sex. For example, if I am looking for a man who is pure, faithful, respectful and kind...I better be those things myself! Being impure, unfaithful and mean isn't going to find me that type of guy. :) So yes, I would date myself, to say. lol
 
dothackzero

dothackzero

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If I was a female EXACTLY like me, I'd be a lesbian. :p
 
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beth18

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if i were a male and exatly like me no i would not but i would def help myself to beome that person i would want to date just as i am doing now im building my faith in christ and changing the imperfections to be more christ-like. So saying this i also realize that Y would someone want to date me now? yeah good question... idk thats why i have god to help me figure these things out and even so maybe i wont date or even marry...no not because im ugly or rude or any normal reason u wouldnt want to date someone but because maybe god need to be single to work my life for him or maybe i compete my works for god here on earth tonight and i die tomorrow... point being even if i would date myself i want god to be in it weather iam perfect or imperfect its what god wants not me.
 
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sweetheart728

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PenguChuck said:
Noob, quit changing the rules of engagement.

Even if I was a girl, and was EXACTLY like I am now. Once again, I'd have to say NO. (View other topic for reason why)

And OP, if your going to start something like this, its wise to jump start the topic by first ansering the question you posted. :/
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uhmmm yeaaa... i didnt have an answer so i didnt answer

and deff wasnt changing the rules of engagement... i just wanted everyone to understand the question :/
 
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Liam

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There'd be little Liana all over the place
 
Sharp

Sharp

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I don't think I could. I think I'm out of my league.
 
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amy

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faithfuljy said:
Yes, I would. Not because I think I'm great or anything arrogant like that, but because I could trust me. I know I have alot to offer as a Christian woman, even with my flaws :) It's about having self-respect and being confident, but not being stuck on your self. You should be a reflection of what you are looking for in someone of the opposite sex. For example, if I am looking for a man who is pure, faithful, respectful and kind...I better be those things myself! Being impure, unfaithful and mean isn't going to find me that type of guy. :) So yes, I would date myself, to say. lol
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wooow love ur answer!!!

i think the same..God Bless u
 
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giantone

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no way , I'm a great guy but I couldn't be a compliment to myself, meaning The differences between the husband and bride (in a Christian marriage are supposed to) create something greater than the some of there parts. They are supposed to draw on each other's streangth and help with weaknesses when one is stronger the other can help the one who is down.

And how could I help my wife be all that she can be if she's already exactly like me and visa versa.
 
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ChristopherMichael

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giantone said:
no way , I'm a great guy but I couldn't be a compliment to myself, meaning The differences between the husband and bride (in a Christian marriage are supposed to) create something greater than the some of there parts. They are supposed to draw on each other's streangth and help with weaknesses when one is stronger the other can help the one who is down.

And how could I help my wife be all that she can be if she's already exactly like me and visa versa.
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Amen to this! People often dislike negative traits in other people that they themselves are having trouble with. I think I'd strangle myself out of frustration if I tried to have a relationship with myself.

- Topher
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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This is an awesome question... however... I think I'd be traumatized by a male version of myself.
 
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peekaboo

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Nope I don't get along with myself at the best of times, so it would'nt last very long .LOL :)
 
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Jordan9

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Yes, I'm awesome.

Lol, jk. But I think I would.
 
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SeaGlass1111

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I would absolutely positively date me and marry me...if I were the opposite sex that is. I have grown so much as a person over the past few years I have learned how NOT to nag, I have learned how to give someone a respectful amount of space, I am learning how NOT to sweat the small stuff, I am forgiving, I believe in unconditional love and I am extremely understanding...I have a few bad things about my personality BUT WE WONT MENTION THOSE! ;) but hopefully, I would be understanding to myself and help me deal with those things and overcome them. Couples need to uplift each other, support each other and help each other get over all of lifes bumps smoothly...

lol...I've never talked about marrying myself before...
 
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FixYourWeave

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Im to good for me!
 
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Walt

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Not a chance.

A. I'm terrible at cleaning which is about 1/2 of what a woman is supposed to do.
B. I can't cook anything well.
C. I wouldnt want to be around kids as much as my wife has to.
 
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