This is incorrect. No butter or molasses on the oatmeal. Brown sugar must be used. This may not please your dad. He might need a glass of juice. A toasted buttered bagel would appreciated too. Forget about the cream cheese because that is incorrect.
I would have had honey instead of molasses but we're out of honey.
And fyi, brown sugar is sugar and molasses. So... what was wrong with molasses again?