I have heard horror stories about misused "tongues" and personally, it scares the daylights out of me to consider some babbling I can't understand myself and direct it toward my Almighty God in any way. Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.
Have faith of the Holy Spirit within you. I am drawing a blank right now of the scriptures written of how the Holy Spirit intercedes in our prayer life. Crash diving on the pancakes I ate many hrs ago may have something to do with it. LOL
In the scriptures. Is there anywhere that it is written that speaking in other tongues was used by the enemy?
In 1995. I had a prompting to check out this tiny little trailer sitting in a truck stop that was being used as a Church in OK City. I had issues with bad, evil people at the time.
There were two female Pastors in this trl Church. One highly educated, and the other not. They spoke of forgiveness.
They received the gift of tongues after they were able to forgive anybody for no matter how bad of sin that was
committed by an evil doer.
For whatever reason. They had mentioned it took two years for the educated pastor to forgive, while the uneducated was able to forgive almost immediately before receiving the gift of tongues.
These two, and one other pastor who just came by visiting all layed hands on me and prayed over me before I left.
I then hit the road, seeking the Lord and asking for the Gift of tongues with all my heart mind and soul for many months.
I never did receive the gift of tongues. When I really search my heart deep down to this day. I do sense a tiny bit of wanting some proof to show others that having the gift of tongues is a way of proving that God is with me.
It would be used like going into a default mode. if I ever would doubt my faith, and all that God has shown me.
I could mention my gift of tongues. Totally wrong motivation for this gift.
What does come to my heart when I would ask for this gift? My Grace is sufficient for you. I am content with that.
I have spoken with others that did receive the gift of tongues. What they shared with me! Speaking in Tongues is a supernatural way of praying to God and speaking with the Angels. They tell me that this is very powerful, and that
I should really seek out this gift.
Even with that said. It is no longer in my heart to seek the gift of tongues. My grace is sufficient is what comes
to heart and mind on this matter. I again am content with that.

For it is not man we are trying to please or empress.