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Well if you're in a relationship with someone who was lying to you or cheating on you the whole time, it's only natural you're going to have insecurities and be jealous when the new person is out and about around with other members of the opposite sex. Does it make it right? No. But is it natural and understandable? Absolutely. That's why it takes both parties to fully communicate about what the other likes and dislikes at the beginning of the relationship.
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I dated a guy who every time i talked to another guy he would get like crazy about it. He'd immediately assume i was interested in whoever i was talking to. And what he was perceiving wasn't true.
Jealousy is probably one of the most unattractive qualities. And having said that, Are you sure this girl is flirting and dating other guys or are you just thinking she is??
On the other hand though. I wouldn't like it if someone simply didn't care what i was doing or who i was talking to.
Jealousy is probably one of the most unattractive qualities. And having said that, Are you sure this girl is flirting and dating other guys or are you just thinking she is??
On the other hand though. I wouldn't like it if someone simply didn't care what i was doing or who i was talking to.
It's interesting how in this forum, jealousy is only about other people in the relationship.
My husband and I have been totally committed to each other for 34 years. Neither of us has ever cheated, or wanted to.
However, when my husband got on a 2 year obsessive project with his Mazda626 I was very jealous that he spent more time on that wreck than on me!
My husband gets jealous of me talking to people on the internet, even if I am sitting right next to him, and he sees who I am posting to. He thinks the internet is to look for new broken down cars to fix, not to talk to strangers. LOL
My husband and I have been totally committed to each other for 34 years. Neither of us has ever cheated, or wanted to.
However, when my husband got on a 2 year obsessive project with his Mazda626 I was very jealous that he spent more time on that wreck than on me!
My husband gets jealous of me talking to people on the internet, even if I am sitting right next to him, and he sees who I am posting to. He thinks the internet is to look for new broken down cars to fix, not to talk to strangers. LOL
I have dated only one really jealous girl in all my life. She also gave me the biggest nightmare of my life.
It also turned out. She was everything that she was jealous about.
Funny about girls/women being jealous of a guys hobby's. I have been accused of liking my dirt bikes more then a few times. I think my last girlfriend accused me of liking my boat more then her. When there is 15k worth of upgraded engine and transmission to install. It does kind of need to get done. lol
It also turned out. She was everything that she was jealous about.
Funny about girls/women being jealous of a guys hobby's. I have been accused of liking my dirt bikes more then a few times. I think my last girlfriend accused me of liking my boat more then her. When there is 15k worth of upgraded engine and transmission to install. It does kind of need to get done. lol
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Is it a first gen! I want a first gen 626 coupe so bad! I want to restore it, drop in a 13B (or maybe a 12A), install a limited slip and upgrade the suspension and chassis!
And then strip the paint down to the steel panels and clear coat them so it sort of looks like a Delorean.
(I'm a huge Mazda nerd. Your husband and I would be besties.)
Is it a first gen! I want a first gen 626 coupe so bad! I want to restore it, drop in a 13B (or maybe a 12A), install a limited slip and upgrade the suspension and chassis!
And then strip the paint down to the steel panels and clear coat them so it sort of looks like a Delorean.
(I'm a huge Mazda nerd. Your husband and I would be besties.)
Jealous means "demanding of unique affection". God is a jealous god. He made us in his image. God's covenant of marriage commands unique affection between the man and woman.
If you are not willing to be an authority in your household to be a keeper, protector, and guardian... you should consider remaining single.
Isaiah 5:20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that count darkness as light, and light as darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!21 Woe unto them that are wise in their own eyes, and prudent in their own sight!
If you are not willing to be an authority in your household to be a keeper, protector, and guardian... you should consider remaining single.
Isaiah 5:20 Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that count darkness as light, and light as darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!21 Woe unto them that are wise in their own eyes, and prudent in their own sight!
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I don't think you should be extreme on either end- not too clingy and not too passive. If they want to know where you are every second of the day there has to be trust issues, and if that is the case you shouldn't be with them or marry them if you can't trust them. On the other hand, if i'm like at a wedding and some girl is dancing with my man and hanging all over him, and obviously flirting, I'm going to speak up.
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My own preference... no, i wouldn't want him to have a problem with me talking to other guys. However, if i was talking to or spending a lot of time with guys other than the one i was dating, then he'd have a reason to be jealous.
I think the line would be different for different people. If a person had been cheated on previously, then their line would be different than one who hadn't been cheated on.
I think the line would be different for different people. If a person had been cheated on previously, then their line would be different than one who hadn't been cheated on.
