As a christian, how can you be attractive?

[kristinei]

this q is for those who are seeking or looking for a partner..

 

[epw]

hey what do u mean about that

 

[epw]

u there.......

 

[kristinei]

oh sorry...
i mean if u r looking for a partner... how can u attract him? like how will u dress up? will u be wearing sexy clothes? will u really be slim as in not fat? things like that..

 

[Cako53]

I think that if someone's main values in a person is there looks, than that relationship isn't going to be very stable.

 

[kristinei]

yes, thats ryt too... but someone must be attractive first before knowing that person ryt? and its a plus if the person is good inside too

 

[Cako53]

I will get to know anyone no matter how they look. I have sworn off dating from now on until I feel God is telling me this is the one. If God wants me with someone, he will guide me to her or her to me. I have faith.

 

[kristinei]

you have a very good character or thinking about dating someone or knowing a person...

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i think being attractive is respecting yourself and continue to glorify God in everything you are doing... it's hard sometimes though because there are times that you are so down and u get so depressed..

 

[NoTearsShed]

The most attractive thing in the world is "Loving God & putting God first"
especially not being afraid or embarrased to say "I believe in God"

 

[goth4god]

as a christian I would think that I would attract a Christian man by just being myself and showing my light.
Knight in Shining Armor by P.B. Wilson is a really good book for women and it has a section that talks about this.

 

[MahogonySnail]

big Christian biceps.

 

[BellaFlor]

I will get to know anyone no matter how they look. I have sworn off dating from now on until I feel God is telling me this is the one. If God wants me with someone, he will guide me to her or her to me. I have faith.

Keep on having that faith up. God will truly guide you and let you know.
The Holy Spirit will reveal it for you so that you will fully know.

God bless you.

 

[J0Y]

Prov 31 - key verse: "Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised!"

If you wanna attract a guy who is into superficial - then dress sexy...chances are the relationship will last as long as your appearance keeps looking good! Well, I am generalising, but seriously, outward appearance is such a lame way to judge a person - cos in 60 years time they won't look like they do now!!!! hahaha. Dressing sexy in my opinion makes full on Godly guys go - argh, she is desperate!! (back me up here guys if this is true)!!!

If you wanna attract a guy who will love you for who you are and a man who is after God's heart himself - - - Seek after the Lord with all your being....keep him the number 1 priority, be yourself, show your true character and let the LORD guide! Dont be in a hurry to arrange things yourself, and dont get infatuated by just anyone....keep Jesus at the centre and he will honour you in that. Remember - God's timing is PERFECT.....even if we do get impatient!! so hang in there!

 

[Pineapple]

Prov 31 - key verse: "Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised!"

If you wanna attract a guy who is into superficial - then dress sexy...chances are the relationship will last as long as your appearance keeps looking good! Well, I am generalising, but seriously, outward appearance is such a lame way to judge a person - cos in 60 years time they won't look like they do now!!!! hahaha. Dressing sexy in my opinion makes full on Godly guys go - argh, she is desperate!! (back me up here guys if this is true)!!!

If you wanna attract a guy who will love you for who you are and a man who is after God's heart himself - - - Seek after the Lord with all your being....keep him the number 1 priority, be yourself, show your true character and let the LORD guide! Dont be in a hurry to arrange things yourself, and dont get infatuated by just anyone....keep Jesus at the centre and he will honour you in that. Remember - God's timing is PERFECT.....even if we do get impatient!! so hang in there!

You've hit the nail on the head there, couldn't have said it better myself. I mean, any guy with self respect won't go for this ''dressing sexy'' thing, it's gross, to put it bluntly.

 

[greatkraw]

I was at the swimming pool the other day and there were 4 young teenage girls in very colourful bikinis. 2 had body painted on their backs 'hot'; the other 2 had 'sexy'

I immediatley saw that these were spiritual giants and endeavored to engage them in fellowship and prayer.

 

[kristinei]

thank you guys... its really so encouraging hearing opinions of christians towards life..

 

[seoulsearch]

big Christian biceps.

Biceps?! And Christian ones at that??? (Must have a Bible verse tat or something...) Where?? *has a thing for arms*

 

[MightyLionOfJuda]

haha nice one snail.I think that just being a true,obedient,christian will bring the right person to be attracted to you because they are attracted to Christ.This will also send away the wrong type of people.Of course,attraction is important to a degree as well

 

[FixYourWeave]

I hate that term, dressing sexy.... sluts do that

 

[NoTearsShed]

Biceps?! And Christian ones at that??? (Must have a Bible verse tat or something...) Where?? *has a thing for arms*

My guess He wasnt really serious probably sarcasm T_T