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Roh_Chris

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Yeah, yall can totally not read this, it's ok. I don't care, I'm posting it anyway.

So, I kinda get the feeling that when she texted me back saying, "You make me so incredibly happy :) " that she is ready for me to say that I love her. Honestly, as much as I look forward to doing this, it's uber scary for me. I guess it should be, right? I mean, it feels right, but its my suspicion that because everything seems so perfect that I would have much regret if I messed things up by moving too fast. I want to wait and not rush anything. Anything. I also want her to know how much those words mean when I say them. It's not like this is a first relationship for either of us. Choosing to move slow. I really think it's the best thing in the long run.
Bro, here are two tips for you from a bear like myself -

1) You gotta play it cool. Nothing suits a woman better than her man playing it cool. And mix it up with some cool moves. That will make an impression on any woman, even if there are any awkward moments. Check out my cousin brother here -




2) The worst you can ever do is to behave like a cookie monster when he sees a cookie. That's a red flag. Never.Ever.Do.That. If you are not sure how much is too much, give yourself a reality check by watching this video.

[video=youtube;I5e6ftNpGsU]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5e6ftNpGsU[/video]

As you should have realized by now, women are not cookies. So if you suffocate her or if you are too fast, she may run away. Give her time. Like I said earlier, play it cool homie.


I think this would be a great thread (a.k.a., When is it ok to say i love you?). In my opinion it sounds like you might still have some reservations about committing (besides just the fear of committing). There's always a 'window' where its not too late and not too early to commit, but if you still have doubts then its probably still too early.
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I wish you good luck, my brother. I pray that God takes charge of the relationship that is blossoming between you two. :)
 
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Ho11y

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I tell ya wut dem dere jukey juice kin takeit to ware itdon shine iswut n betr beleveit.

Translated and captioned -

We hope the executive team at TLC would reconsider their decision.
You know you're southern when you don't need a translation for this. :D
 
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Wandering_Here

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There was a highschool shooting in the town my sister lives in, just a few hours ago. Not sure yet how many were injured, but the kid doing the shooting is dead. I just want to ask everyone to pray for the students and families.
 

lil_christian

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I just slept for 4 hours, give or take a few minutes. Hopefully I'll be able to sleep tonight, too. Something tells me I'm gonna need plenty of sleep this next week or two.
 
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MissCris

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There was a highschool shooting in the town my sister lives in, just a few hours ago. Not sure yet how many were injured, but the kid doing the shooting is dead. I just want to ask everyone to pray for the students and families.
The fact that this isn't shocking is incredibly sad. Definitely praying.
 
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Yeah, yall can totally not read this, it's ok. I don't care, I'm posting it anyway.

So, I kinda get the feeling that when she texted me back saying, "You make me so incredibly happy :) " that she is ready for me to say that I love her. Honestly, as much as I look forward to doing this, it's uber scary for me. I guess it should be, right? I mean, it feels right, but its my suspicion that because everything seems so perfect that I would have much regret if I messed things up by moving too fast. I want to wait and not rush anything. Anything. I also want her to know how much those words mean when I say them. It's not like this is a first relationship for either of us. Choosing to move slow. I really think it's the best thing in the long run.
Slow is a good thing. You don't want to say it just because you feel like she wants you to. Wait until it feels comfortable and natural for you. You're right... the longer you wait, the more it's going to mean to her. Plus, once you speed the train up, it's hard to slow it down.

Congratulations on finding a sweetheart though! :D
 
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There was a highschool shooting in the town my sister lives in, just a few hours ago. Not sure yet how many were injured, but the kid doing the shooting is dead. I just want to ask everyone to pray for the students and families.
I saw that Wandering... so sad! I'm praying.
 
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arwen-undomiel

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I really like stories and movies about redemption, personal growth, prodigal son type stuff.

Watched American History X lastnight for the first time.
 
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arwen-undomiel

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Julianna, it's nice to see you on here more recently :)
 
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BugeyeSTi

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I find it difficult to post about the joys in my life and happiness when I know lots of people here, and offline are struggling. *sigh* Anyone else ever feel this way?


Praying for the hurting folks tonight, whoever and wherever you are.
 
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I find it difficult to post about the joys in my life and happiness when I know lots of people here, and offline are struggling. *sigh* Anyone else ever feel this way?


Praying for the hurting folks tonight, whoever and wherever you are.
I understand how you feel. But sometimes it helps even those hurting to share in the joys of others. :)
 
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arwen-undomiel

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It's very shocking and touching how some nations are reacting and paying respects to our two fallen soldiers. We don't take the respects lightly. And I think we've banded together even more as a country. "There is some good in this world, Mr Frodo, and it's worth fighting for". We all as unified nations will carry on against this evil.
 
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Lynx

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Roh_Chris: Even when I was young enough to watch Sesame Street, I noticed all the cookies always fell out of that dude's mouth. Being a child, I couldn't help thinking what a waste of good cookies...
 

Roh_Chris

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Roh_Chris: Even when I was young enough to watch Sesame Street, I noticed all the cookies always fell out of that dude's mouth. Being a child, I couldn't help thinking what a waste of good cookies...
That is how the Cookie Monster eats his cookies. :p
 

Lynx

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Yeah but even as a wee little kid I kept thinking "couldn't they have made a hole in the back where the cookies can drop through?" It just ruined it for me, the whole suspension-of-disbelief was shot.

But then I'm a nerd. Most kids probably didn't even notice the cookies all fell out the side.
 

cinder

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Yeah but even as a wee little kid I kept thinking "couldn't they have made a hole in the back where the cookies can drop through?" It just ruined it for me, the whole suspension-of-disbelief was shot.

But then I'm a nerd. Most kids probably didn't even notice the cookies all fell out the side.
I just thought he was a very messy eater.