When does your future husband become your present husband?

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OnThisRock

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But you know, their are some dead, or nearly dead threads that are fun to raise up because of the interesting conversations. And really, that age old question, "When does your future husband/wife become your present husband/wife?", has yet to be answered.

No for all those nay sayers out there, stop being a party pooper.
I do not know what is worse. God telling me that the topic for me is DEAD, or that I got busted lol at someone who was banned 5 years ago. :eek:
 

dliz

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#42
when he asks me to marry him. :)
 
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#44
this is why autolock of threads with no post activity after x amount of days is a good thing..

grave digging is bad.
 

JesusLives

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Hey the Blond knows the answer to this question at least for me and my future husband anyway......My future husband tourist will become my present husband on November 27th 2014. One month from tomorrow October 27th....I already consider him my present husband now, but the legal work will be done on the 27th of November. Happy, Happy - Joy, Joy....Oh what a Thanksgiving Day this will be.....:eek::)
 

oyster67

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#46
The Marriage Supper of the Lamb
 
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39Cross27

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#48
I refer to my wife even though Im not quiet sure that Ive met her yet. I know she's still alive out there somewhere
 
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39Cross27

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#50
God has blessed me with the gift of faith.
 
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he becomes your present husband when you get married. Even if you're engaged and you know who you're going to marry, that person isn't your spouse until you actually get married. I'm engaged and I would call my fiancé my future husband.

I guess I kinda understand what the Op is getting at, though. In her mind, the term "future husband" means someone you have not met yet. So by her logic, it becomes tricky once you've met the person that you will marry.
 
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Bate

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#52
lookwhatthelordhasdone, surely I hope that you'll quite understand the question here when the-Lord-has-done something finally. :rolleyes::)
 
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Bate

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#54
Hahaha, what an error!?
Is an error just made up?
It would have been ''Error 505!''
:D
 

AsifinPassing

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I suppose your future person becomes your current person when you find, meet, befriend, date, and then marry them. At that point, it's no longer my figure spouse, but here is my spouse. So yes, it just loses the title at that point.