Bad examples of this:
1. texting in the middle of the night, "How often do you clean under your bed? It's DUSTY down here."
2. you're out to eat, she just excused herself to the bathroom, "Hi, Honey, I just wanted to see how you are doing." or when you know she is in church, at the doctor, or while she is in a business meeting.
3. Do not include the phrase, "I prefer you this way."
4. ...to your ipod
5. unless she says to never do the...
lol, ok.. just trying to have a little fun
Inu has good advice. Seriously.