Okay im 21, Christian, curvy, and oh yeah i go to a bible college. You would think being in this environment i would be around a ton of men of God (mog) but, I'm not. I'm around a ton of boys trying to be men. Im not judging them but im 21 and have a very clear path. Most the guys my age are still struggling if they believe in God. I have had my fair share of missionary dating and im done with that! I know what a M.O.G looks like from being on the mission field in Nepal! Am I crazy for not finding any one worth my time? Im super discouraged with my closest friends who i aspired to be like. Im 21 and single i dont need to be married i know... but i guess i just want confirmation. Or to date outta texas
Problem with these kinds of ideas is that you only notice the men because that's where you're looking. Truth is most women are going through the same thing at your age as well. If you have a clear path for yourself at this age you are likely in the minority of people (men and women).
We live in a world where talking about finding yourself and your path is a huge thing, but providing help or advice or anything else of the kind is no where near as common. Also the expansion of the internet has given young people exposure to new ideas and arguments against their faith than ever before. It is easier to be exposed to ideas that go against their belief. And they witness more things that may make them question and wonder.
I'd say the best thing to do is stop looking. Go live your life. If you meet someone along the way, great. If not, then that's great in it's own ways as well.
But chances are if you're looking at an American bible college to find someone that compares to who you met in a Nepalese mission field, you're going to be out of luck.
