How do you experience me?

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This is an honest question and I would like honest feedback as to how you experience me on this site.
 
I believe they're asking for general opinions about them based on how they interact with others on the site.

With that said, I hardly know or seen many of your posts to develop an opinion of you. I do wonder why one would want or ask about the opinions of others.
 
Just want to know how I am perceived online. I'm not looking to be validated.
 
Right now I am experiencing you as words typed on a page. You would have to PM your name, address and phone number for me to put a real person to your screen name. Some of your posts are amusing and I have gotten a chuckle here and there and you can be serious when you want to. But making a real live friend of you would let you be experienced in a real way. I do mail out an annual Christmas card letter/list and would love to have you on it. To get there it's only a PM away....lol
 
I could'nt really give an honest answer to this question, because I don't read each and every post that people make on here. I'd have to know where to find some of your posts to give you any type of answer. I do agree with the comment that JustAnotherUser made here. Does it really matter how you (or anyone here) are perceived?
 
I could'nt really give an honest answer to this question, because I don't read each and every post that people make on here. I'd have to know where to find some of your posts to give you any type of answer. I do agree with the comment that JustAnotherUser made here. Does it really matter how you (or anyone here) are perceived?

I think it does matter. Paul tell us that as far as we are concerned that we are to be at peace with everyone. Jesus was truly a master at interpersonal interaction and was ALWAYS loving.
 
Sirk,

you have given us a chuckle.:)

we all have to find what creates a Godly Balance for us to be at peace
with our Creator and ourselves.

this can be a life-long process, but definitely a process we should all care about,
as how we present ourselves is a reflection of our walk with Christ.

if we are truly at peace with our Lord, then everything else will eventually
fall into place.
 
Sirk,

you have given us a chuckle.:)

we all have to find what creates a Godly Balance for us to be at peace
with our Creator and ourselves.

this can be a life-long process, but definitely a process we should all care about,
as how we present ourselves is a reflection of our walk with Christ.

if we are truly at peace with our Lord, then everything else will eventually
fall into place.

I am glad I put a smile on your face OTN. :) This is actually a question that I ask my children on occasion. I'll put it different ways but my purpose is to help them check in with themselves and to give them confidence in expressing themselves. It is my fatherly duty to help them dig a little deeper and my sonship duty to pick rocks out of my "field". My purpose asking it here was to pass on a little wisdom to all of you.
 
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Please, what wisdom? The only one I ask this question to is the Lord, Himself. Be true to yourself, your God and your faith. People only perceive you through their own frame of references.
 
Please, what wisdom? The only one I ask this question to is the Lord, Himself. Be true to yourself, your God and your faith. People only perceive you through their own frame of references.

Are you suggesting that God can't use people to help you grow?
 
No - I didn't say that. But you just asked one question.

You did say that.....

"Please, what wisdom? The only one I ask this question to is the Lord, Himself. Be true to yourself, your God and your faith. People only perceive you through their own frame of references."
 
I think it does matter. Paul tell us that as far as we are concerned that we are to be at peace with everyone. Jesus was truly a master at interpersonal interaction and was ALWAYS loving.

No he wasn't, not when he vandalised the Temple, or frightened those pigs over the cliff without compensating the farmer!
 
Don't be a people pleaser but a God pleaser, much more important.
 
I have a friend who grew up in a very Godly home. Without going into detail he made a bad choice when he was about 13. The consequences dished out by his parents proved to mark him for the rest of his life with anxiety about authority....in other words, to this day when he enters a room full of authority type figures he wells up with anxiety as a result of the disciplinary event when he was boy and has had to work thru forgiving his parents for the pain they caused him. He is now in his 40's and although he is healing, it still proves to be a challenge for him that he has to overcome.

He has had to work thru the embarssment and shame this event scarred him with.....so I ask this question...."How do you experience me".....in the hopes that it will help someone to help someone else process pain that YOU have caused in someone else's soul.
 
So far you seem like a genuinely nice guy to me?
But then again, we just met on this thread.
So....nice to meet you Sirk.