Truly one would be inclined to wait, and it might be a long wait patiently though out of hope and faith. The tough part of life is figuring out what to do during the years of silence… during the years when God is seemingly nowhere to be found.
1 Kings 18:1: “After a long time, in the third year, the word of the LORD came to Elijah: “Go and present yourself to Ahab, and I will send rain on the land.”
A man of Elijah status, holding on to his faith in God, for it was not his desire that there be a famine in the land. Out of a situation that one has been made privy of "can't it be hurting when you see colleague going something that you know the end result (Sin)?".
I guess I've misunderstood the OP, forgive me.
I've never experienced God not communicating ANYTHING to me and Him not to be found AT ALL, being a believer or unbeliever. I have a strong sense of God creating all things with a purpose and being present by His messages in things around us (not in pantheistic sense but as in, creating all things with beauty and purpose). It is enough to look at the sky or stars and remember, He made this, so amazing, or taste a yummy fruit and say thanks God for this being so yummy, or listen to how joyfully birds sing and think of life and Heaven. That right there is a message. God talking to every man. We also have His Word written down for us to comfort and counsel us even though we do not "feel" He is there at the moment. So probably that's why I cant really feel His silence, every morning when I wake up that is because God raised me up, that's talking although it might not be in words. He could have killed me, but He raised me up. That really speaks to me. I have struggles in my walk just like everybody else, but that is not silence either, it is chastizement. God does not give silent treatments. He always makes Himself clear. He just wont nag.
In the past I thought I experienced silence simply because of my ignorance about God. It took me a while to understand how non-confusing His nature is and that is why He is not talking all the time. He would just confuse us by giving instruction non stop. I actually imagined being guided by God something frantic like this:
"Okay, get into the car now. Go right, twice! Now go left! Keep it straight... some more... just a bit more, pass that building... now right again at the corner! That's right, that's the building... you're there!"
Not really. Instead I heard something comparable to
"Go west. You know where the west is."
I am a detail-oriented person and this made me feel lost and frustrated. God is all about the big picture. The thing is I was relying on myself too much, instead of letting Him guide the way He does.
He gives clear, non-cluttered guidance, once, then sometime reminds, we can also look into the Bible to be reminded, He also gives a lot of freedom in love, but He does not hand us to-do lists for every day... which I expected of God for quite a while and thought for years that He was being silent because that laundry list of things I was supposed to do was just not popping up to me! Well, maybe God doesnt want a robot.
I was mainly talking about this in the upper post... that I would have periods in the past when God would stop giving revelations to me, the sake of testing - would I seek spiritual experiences rather than Him? I just read the Bible and waited on Him. Revelations are nothing and God is everything so every way He talks or chooses to be present in is priceless. My point is, we sometimes put hindrances on God in regards of how, when and why HE "should" talk. We do not know about Elijah's spiritual life during that time, but even if there was complete silence, he was being preserved all that time, in spite of the famine. It is a way of communication too, at least in my eyes.