Many years ago my husband and I tried debt consolidation and they wanted the same payment as what we had been paying, and we were behind because we couldn't make the payment. How does that help? They seem to set the rules and you have to play by them, there's not much you have a say in.
I would see about a loan, especially through a credit union, and see if you can get a payment you can make.
We ended up filing bankruptcy, which we tried at all costs to avoid, but it got everybody off our backs. We were not unwise with our money, but losing a job makes it pretty hard to keep up on your bills. If you file bankruptcy you can still pay it back, you just don't have somebody breathing down your neck with the phone calls.