10 Men Christian Women Should Never Marry

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Mary96

Mary96

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The unbeliever. 2 Corinthians 6:14 “Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?”

The liar. If you discover that the man you are dating has lied to you about his past run for the nearest exit.

The playboy. I wish I could say that if you meet a nice guy at church, you can assume he’s living in sexual purity.

The deadbeat. Second marriages can be beautiful and happy. But if you find out that the man you are dating hasn’t been caring for his children from a previous marriage leave if he can not even support his own children from a previous marriage is not going to treat you responsibly.

The addict. Never marry a man who refuses to get help for his addiction.

The bum. “If anyone is not willing to work, then he is not to eat, either” 2 Thess. 3:10

The narcissist. I really hope you can find a guy who is handsome. A man who is always looking at himself in the mirror will never notice you.

The abuser. Men with abusive tendencies can’t control their anger when it boils over.

The man-child. Call me old-fashioned, but I’m suspicious of a guy who still lives with his parents at age 35.

The control freak. First Peter 3:7 commands husbands to treat their wives as equals.
 
Mary96 said:
The unbeliever. 2 Corinthians 6:14 “Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?”
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I only have one....sorry.

1. The Un-belieber--She doesn't listen to Justin Bieber.

....that's enough for me.:D
 
Mary96 said:
The man-child. Call me old-fashioned, but I’m suspicious of a guy who still lives with his parents at age 35.
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Hey, I lived at home until the time that I got married at age 39. Besides, have you never read:

Mark chapter 10

[6] But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
[7] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
[8] And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
[9] What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

:confused:
 
JesusistheChrist said:
Hey, I lived at home until the time that I got married at age 39. Besides, have you never read:

Mark chapter 10

[6] But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
[7] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
[8] And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
[9] What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

:confused:
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I didnt say its wrong I said it was suspicious
 
Mary96 said:
The playboy. I wish I could say that if you meet a nice guy at church, you can assume he’s living in sexual purity.
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Good list, but yeah this would usually be a wrong assumption, unfortunately. :(
 
Well..... that's good that you know what you want at 18.
When I was that age, I was just happy if a girl said hi to me
....that was enough to start thinking about marriage.:)
 
Mary96 said:
"Call me old-fashioned, but I’m suspicious of a guy who still lives with his parents at age 35. "
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So what constitutes a manchild? Although I'm not 35 I am 24 back living at home. Every person's situation is different and you can't really make a generalized statement like that.
 
Mary96 said:
"Call me old-fashioned, but I’m suspicious of a guy who still lives with his parents at age 35. "
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Yes, and that's man #9 on your list of "10 Men Christian Women Should NEVER Marry".

Jesus said that a man should leave his father and mother FOR THE CAUSE OF MARRIAGE, so you really should amend your list.
 
Gentlemen,

Please do NOT make an equivalent list of all the horrible types of women in the world.

It would make the ladies cry, and I'm sure they'd accuse us of being misogynistic.


Just let it go.
: )
 
the man who wrote the above list did also make one for you gentlemen.

my daughters were spitting nails when they read that one, too. :rolleyes:
 
maxwel said:
Gentlemen,

Please do NOT make an equivalent list of all the horrible types of women in the world.

It would make the ladies cry, and I'm sure they'd accuse us of being misogynistic.


Just let it go.
: )
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I would never be mad or cry at a list. A list is a stupid thing to get upset about. It is my opinion that it would take a pretty weak woman to get upset about a list. Actually I would be quite interested in seeing that list. I find it fascinating how men and women differ and how we view each other. Its even more interesting when you compare how christianity and the world view how men and women and the roles they think that each sex fits in to. I know it is wrong to judge people but if a 35 year old man told me he lived with his parents I would think he does not have his life together. That is just the truth. If he went on to explains that he lives with them to take care of them thats different. I would completely understand I would never want my parents or my husbands to have to spend their final days alone in a retirement home. There is a big difference between taking care of your parents and your parents taking care of you.
 
here ya go.....:)

10 Women A Man Shouldn’t Marry 1. The Late Night Texter
You know, the girl who only texts you after midnight. She’s the girl who only contacts you when she wants something, or someone to talk to. You can go weeks without hearing from this person, only to rarely get a text full of smiley faces and a message that reads, “Hey! How are you?” They aren’t consistent. Don’t fall into the trap.
2. The Gold-digger
She’s the woman who loves your wallet, bank account, and credit cards. Be sure to stay away from a woman who is only interested in material things, and how much of these things your salary can buy her.
3. The Flirt
This woman loves to flirt with strangers, waiters, and even your friends. The woman you should seek is one who flirts with you and only you, no matter the circumstance. That last thing you want is to be married to someone who will deliberately flirt with people in front or you, let alone behind your back.
4. The Liar
Don’t trust a woman who is constantly lying to you. If you continue to ignore her inconsistencies, she could eventually do something detrimental to your relationship.
5. The Flake
This is the woman who calls off dates, constantly changes plans and never shows up when she promised she would. If you think this will change once you’re married, you’re wrong. A flakey woman will never put her man first.
6. The Partier
Stay away from her. Although she may seem as a fun and outgoing, I guarantee you will be better off with someone who stays away from gatherings full of bad mistakes and regretful decisions. The lifestyle of a partier never fits well with the maturity that is needed in marriage.
7. The Quick To Judge
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I would encourage you to stay away from the woman who constantly throws judgments at others. This is a bad habit that is not only frowned upon, but it will also hinder you from finding any type of outside friendships. Let Judge Judy stay a TV show. Don’t marry her.
8. The Immodest Dresser
The last thing you want to do is marry someone who put’s their body on display for the rest of the world to see. Without going into too much detail, I would encourage you to marry someone who respects their body enough to keep it covered and modest.
9. The Negative Nancy She’s the woman who can find something negative in just about anything. And although there is nothing wrong with being a little skeptical, living life with someone who is constantly negative will definitely put a damper on your relationship. It’s not worth it.
10. The Cheater
I’m all for grace and second chances, but the last thing you want is to find yourself in a marriage with someone you can’t even trust. I’m a huge believe that everyone can change, but please don’t get caught up in the lie that cheating is just normal part of life. You deserve better.

website: 10 Men And Women You Should Never Marry | Jarrid Wilson
 
Men you should ask God in prayer and I meant in fervent prayer and many times over before marring and you women should do the same. God blessed me with a wife whom I have loved now for 24 years come May the 4th. We have never had an affair with anyone. I have been a drunk and put her through hell but her prayers brought me through. A spouse is not just a thing you have. But the two have become one flesh, that means you are not you without the other.
 
Kerry said:
Men you should ask God in prayer and I meant in fervent prayer and many times over before marring and you women should do the same. God blessed me with a wife whom I have loved now for 24 years come May the 4th. We have never had an affair with anyone. I have been a drunk and put her through hell but her prayers brought me through. A spouse is not just a thing you have. But the two have become one flesh, that means you are not you without the other.
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Congratulations on being married almost 24 years. :)
 
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