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Asking a girl out can be a delicate process for a guy, because it takes both the guts and toughness to walk up to it, as well as the sensitive heart to open your emotions to somebody else.
It can equally be a delicate process for a girl, I imagine, because it will be both flattering and a little startling.
I have asked a lot of girls out on dates in my time, and some have said yes while others rejected. I've learned to accept both answers understanding.
But what I want to know is this: What is the most polite and appropriate way to ask a girl out? Sometimes I'll ask and my friends of both genders will say that I "came on too strong" and other times they will say I "came on too weak". It's weird because this is a delicate balance. If I try to be polite, they say I come across too weak, but if I try to be be rugged and manly, they say I come across too strong. And to top it all off, if I try to just be myself and be honest, they tell me I come across as "Creepy" (which really hurts my ego).
So where's the happy median?
Ladies, I'm asking you primarily. What is the most Strong AND Polite way to ask a girl out that is Honest but not Creepy?
Thanks and God bless you
It can equally be a delicate process for a girl, I imagine, because it will be both flattering and a little startling.
I have asked a lot of girls out on dates in my time, and some have said yes while others rejected. I've learned to accept both answers understanding.
But what I want to know is this: What is the most polite and appropriate way to ask a girl out? Sometimes I'll ask and my friends of both genders will say that I "came on too strong" and other times they will say I "came on too weak". It's weird because this is a delicate balance. If I try to be polite, they say I come across too weak, but if I try to be be rugged and manly, they say I come across too strong. And to top it all off, if I try to just be myself and be honest, they tell me I come across as "Creepy" (which really hurts my ego).
So where's the happy median?
Ladies, I'm asking you primarily. What is the most Strong AND Polite way to ask a girl out that is Honest but not Creepy?
Thanks and God bless you