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BePerfect

BePerfect

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Matthew 5:48New King James Version (NKJV)[SUP]48 [/SUP]Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.

Matthew 7:7
"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.

Matthew 18:2-4

[SUP]2 [/SUP]Then Jesus called a little child to Him, set him in the midst of them, [SUP]3 [/SUP]and said, “Assuredly, I say to you, unless you are converted and become as little children, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven. [SUP]4 [/SUP]Therefore whoever humbles Herself/himself as this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

1 John 4:18

There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.

SO STOP LOOKING FOR HER OR HIM AND RELAX AND BE A HUMAN AND LET HIM BE A FATHER
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

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I used to think it that way but, such a "perfect" person made just for me or someone else, does not exist my lifetime. If she was that one, I missed her up and, if I was somebody´s else mate, I did everything wrong, as I´m posting now.

He! He! :)

God has bigger plans for me (for you too) and that´s modeling my life to endure eternity.

It´s just an opinion! But I´m sure of me.
 
BePerfect

BePerfect

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secularhermit said:
I used to think it that way but, such a "perfect" person made just for me or someone else, does not exist my lifetime. If she was that one, I missed her up and, if I was somebody´s else mate, I did everything wrong, as I´m posting now.

He! He! :)

God has bigger plans for me (for you too) and that´s modeling my life to endure eternity.

It´s just an opinion! But I´m sure of me.
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You are not ready yet. When you have suffer so much and have cried so much and you have know what loneliness really is then you will be ready. Unless you know how Lonely God was when he said let's there be light you'll never be perfect.
 
PoetMary

PoetMary

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Yeah....I think the idea that people get their life-mate when they're "perfect" and "ready" is total bunk.

There are plenty of people who marry and have zero idea of what they're getting into. There are people who maturely decide to marry. There are people who marry out of desperation and loneliness. There are people who develop a close relationship and then decide to marry.

The very idea that there is a "formula" for us to follow that leads to marriage is completely unbiblical. It also is a way of trying to protect ourselves from vulnerability and uncertainty.
 
BePerfect

BePerfect

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PoetMary said:
Yeah....I think the idea that people get their life-mate when they're "perfect" and "ready" is total bunk.

There are plenty of people who marry and have zero idea of what they're getting into. There are people who maturely decide to marry. There are people who marry out of desperation and loneliness. There are people who develop a close relationship and then decide to marry.

The very idea that there is a "formula" for us to follow that leads to marriage is completely unbiblical. It also is a way of trying to protect ourselves from vulnerability and uncertainty.
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Don't worry. He knows when you are ready. Either way He is God and you are a human after all.
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

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Of course I´m not ready and I won´t be ready!



I lived enough and, after these years, there´s no need to daydreamings: I´m good for no one as no one was good for me.



He! He!



I have known of those who married late and... Sad stories I don´t like to hear of or share.
 
Grace-Like-Rain

Grace-Like-Rain

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BePerfect said:
You are not ready yet. When you have suffer so much and have cried so much and you have know what loneliness really is then you will be ready. Unless you know how Lonely God was when he said let's there be light you'll never be perfect.
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Do you believe that God created our universe and mankind because he was lonely and needed us to love him?
 
BePerfect

BePerfect

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secularhermit said:
Of course I´m not ready and I won´t be ready!



I lived enough and, after these years, there´s no need to daydreamings: I´m good for no one as no one was good for me.



He! He!



I have known of those who married late and... Sad stories I don´t like to hear of or share.
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Alright then if you don't want to marry late or not hear sad stories. Relax, enjoy life or suffer more either way he will come for you dead or alive. He careless. Remember he is EVERYWHERE, KNOWS EVERYTHING. You'll never see him coming.
 
BePerfect

BePerfect

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Grace-Like-Rain said:
Do you believe that God created our universe and mankind because he was lonely and needed us to love him?
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Ok. Good question. Why are u online, why you need/want God, why do you need the internet? Lock yourself in a room and isolate(fast) yourself from the world. Then youll understand God/Jesus and the world.
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Uh... in that case, why are YOU on the internet BePerfect?
 
BePerfect

BePerfect

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Lynx said:
Uh... in that case, why are YOU on the internet BePerfect?
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Let me ask you this. Has anyone seen God? So what if God is the poor man on the street? What if God is a Cat? Remember he is a Ghost he can possess anyone, any living animal and see the world through that living thing eye.

JUST WATCH THE MOVIE BRUCE ALMIGHTY you'll get it. lol :)
 
BePerfect

BePerfect

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seoulsearch said:
Here we go again...
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Don't worry. I'm just messing with you all. You'll never get it. EVEN I DIDN'T GET IT AND HE WAS MAKING FUN OF THE FACT THAT I DIDN'T GET IT. UNTIL FEW DAYS AGO. :)
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Is it just me or does BePerfect sound like someone else we saw last week in a different thread?
 
Lynx

Lynx

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seoulsearch said:
Welcome back, Victor/TrueColors/user who was banned.
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"Well when you say it like that, it makes perfect sense."

Sorry, sorry, I know... hush Lynx. =^.^=
 
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kaylagrl

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Lynx said:
Is it just me or does BePerfect sound like someone else we saw last week in a different thread?
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Kind of rings a bell...
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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There's just something utterly ironic to me about people who flip their noses at the guidelines of the forum but yet believe they are the chosen prophets who are here to tell us who God is and how to follow Him...
 
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