Honestly I really suck at this. I'm am
the most un-comforting/un-helpful person in the world. I never know what to say to people to help out, and everything seems misplaced or rude. I have a vast admiration for all the people who've shown their skills when they comfort me
When end it comes to things like this, I'm even worse (lol). I either try to avoid the situation in the first place or guide the, to someone who can say it better than me.