When you guys are ready just say the word.....the only thing your wife has to worry about is I might like to say grace for the meal other than that she is safe and I don't bite....other than the food....I will bite into that....Jesus job to save mine to love.....
PS we have lots in common we're all human right? Or are you Aliens?
Oh, usually most people think us a little strange because we pray at meals... wherever we are. (Very rare exceptions... usually when we feel it would serve no purpose but to make people think we are putting them down... in some of those cases we just look at one another, and know that we are thanking God.)
We meet a Universalist Unitarian couple that we have gotten to know at Hardee's every Sunday after church. They just sit and watch their plates while we pray. We keep it short. I still don't really know what they think God is, but two weeks ago, the woman consented to let my wife pray for her back pain, right there in the restaurant. The husband said, "If it works, I'll let you pray for my legs." We didn't push any explanation... just, basically, said, "OK."
They still think it is weird that I once told them that at our church, most people worship with their eyes closed, and pray with their eyes open. LOL Although I don't think they really care... their services sound like a Rotarian meeting. They relate that they often have people come in to talk about investing in the stock market, or about retirement strategies.
The thing about my wife is that we almost never have a conversation with anyone that does not soon turn to God, and I think she is resisting dealing with where "differences" can lead in that vein.