Hello Darlor, welcome to CC, Hope you find this as a home to meet new frends and have great fellowship with Christians alike. You will find many people in the same boat, and you will find out how some of them trust God in those situations and see what God has done for them. God bless you and your 14 yr old Daughter. God's hands is stretching out to you both. All you need is to lift up your hands and reach for it. God bless and be blessed......