Why did you choose a name such as babe? I'm confused as to what I should be calling you now, I'm certainly not gonna call you babe, I'll stick to OP.
Sex is supposed to be pure, its like a gift from God to the ones that are married, but the humans offcourse have found ways to abuse this gift. Sex is not just for the pleasure of mutual love, its something that brings the two bodies together as one flesh, as we can see that in Genesis. Any sexual activity outside of the commitment of marriage is adultery. Sex before marriage is very similar to that. It is something outside marriage. Here is what Bible tells us about sexual immorality -
1 Corinthians 6:18-20
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.
Here is what happens to those who commit such a thing -
Galatians 5:19-21
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
Think about it for yourself, weigh the pros and cons and I think the cons are much heavier. Waiting for the right time to do this after marriage also gives you that oppurtunity to experience something beautiful which won't make you feel guilty later on like how having sex now would make you feel. Your losing your virginity to your husband, the man God made for you, your having sex for the first time with that man, and only him. Don't you think that is has much more of a worth than doing it now? For me, waiting for my woman is definitely worth it. I wouldn't want to commit a sin either, so sex before marriage is a big no.
God bless you.
