There is a big difference between a Messianic Jew and a Jewish Christian.
I've been a part of both (I am what you would concider a Jewish Christian I guess).
When I was a part of the Messianic movement there was a lot of judging and condemning of others, plus a lot of the people did not practice what they preached.
I currently go a Jewish synagogue. We do call ourselves Jewish, but we believe and follow Yeshua as the Messiah in everything we do as far as Torah observance. We do not concider ourselves "under the law" because Yeshua has given us salvation. We follow Torah as a lifestyle, and in obedience. The focus of the synagogue is to live as the apostles lived. Which in fact they were Jewish, and did live a Jewish lifestyle.
We do not force what we follow on others, and we are also taught to not force what we follow on others.
If someone asks a question on why I follow what I follow I will give an answer, and I will use scripture to back it up.
Now that does not mean I'm forcing it on someone else, and if someone disagrees with me I'll defend my position on it, because I'm not going to let someone else tell me how to translate scripture just because they think their way is right and my way is wrong or vise versa.
I don't know if you've noticed, but I post less than I use to. And that's mainly because that chastizement on the "forcing" part that teaching my rabbi did was recent and I felt majorly convict by it, and my eyes were openned when he brought up the scriptures and what not. Because I do realize a lot of my older post did come out as a "forcing issue" so I try to stay away from that now.