Jesus said this...
Joh 3:19
And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
Joh 3:20
For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
Joh 3:21
But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
Therefore a good question to ask ourselves is...
Are our deeds wrought in God because we have come to the light?
Peter wrote...
1Pe 4:1 Forasmuch then as Christ hath suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves likewise with the same mind: for he that hath suffered in the flesh hath ceased from sin;
1Pe 4:2 That he no longer should live the rest of his time in the flesh to the lusts of men, but to the will of God.
1Pe 4:3 For the time past of our life may suffice us to have wrought the will of the Gentiles, when we walked in lasciviousness, lusts, excess of wine, revellings, banquetings, and abominable idolatries:
1Pe 4:4 Wherein they think it strange that ye run not with them to the same excess of riot, speaking evil of you:
1Pe 4:5 Who shall give account to him that is ready to judge the quick and the dead.
1Pe 4:6 For for this cause was the gospel preached also to them that are dead, that they might be judged according to men in the flesh, but live according to God in the spirit.
Do we live our time in the flesh according to the lusts of men?
Or do we live our time in the flesh to the will of God and hence no more walk in "lasciviousness, lusts, excess of wine, revellings, banquetings, and abominable idolatries."
Jesus did teach...
Mat 10:38
And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.
Mat 10:39
He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.
Have we lost our life in order to find it?
The majority won't because they love the world, something we are warned about by John...
1Jn 2:15
Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
1Jn 2:16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
Very few will find life...
Mat 7:13 Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat:
Mat 7:14 Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and
few there be that find it.
Very many people will profess "Lord, Lord" and yet will be rejected by Jesus...
Mat 7:22
Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
Mat 7:23
And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
These people remained workers of iniquity. In other words they never forsook "working iniquity." These people never departed from iniquity...
2Ti_2:19 Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And,
Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.
The people mentioned in Mat 7:22 clearly never departed from iniquity.
We have to both HEAR AND DO...
Mat 7:24
Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:
Mat 7:25
And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock.
It is very easy to ignore these very simple teachings from the Bible. It is very easy to force them from the mind and take comfort in a false message which has been created to subvert any notion of one being required to "die to the world." If one can force such a notion from the mind then one can suppress the light of conscience whereby one can more easily engage in rebellion to God without concern for what that will actually reap in actual reality.
Reality is king, not delusion.