Because you're so interested in my personal life (only in a bad way for the purpose of ad hominem) Nautilus, I'll give you another tidbit.
Recently, this year, I had to again change churches (from one typical evangelical assembly to another typical evangelical assembly). The reason for this is because yet another woman in her thirties that was one of my plutonic female friends "fell in love" with me.
I explained to her that there was no future for us as a married couple because if I marry her I'll lose the legal power I presently enjoy as a non-married individual and enter into a state in which men have lost virtually all of their legal protections and liable for outright exploitation (even with a prenup in this state).
I explained the nightmare stories of men going to prison after becoming sick and losing their job and the madness and severe persecution that I'd seen friends of mine who were male have to endure for decades after a divorce... how there's no time period or amount of distance, legal contract or legal status, that can truly be said to protect a man after a divorce and that you have literally no angle of protection or legal status to escape it. You can (and many do) lose everything including your children.
I told her I'd die before I'd sign an ungodly legal contract that reduced me to THAT.
She said, "but I LOVE you." I said, love someone else because
I'll never marry under the present feminist gulag system. I distanced myself from her immediately but she wouldn't stop. Apparently, she was in love with me. So then people started approaching me about it. I told them look I have a lot of friends. Many of them are women. I am a genuine Christian and these relationships are plutonic. They are NOT sinful. They said she had told them that and they understood that.
I told them if the laws were different, I'd already be married. But the laws are NOT different and I'm not going to violate my liberty and integrity to legally contract myself to a state of powerless human slavery where I can be legally raped by the government forever after she divorces me.
But, I could see it wasn't going to stop, so I left. Now I'm making new friends. Many of them are female. Wash, rinse, repeat. Fortunately there are a lot of churches where I live. A lot of them. So, it's going to be OK.