Conservative Christian girls are letting conservative Christian men down

[Godson13]

As a conservative christian man, I always knew that when the time comes for me to get a wife i will marry one of those conservative christian women. There are Christians i call social Christians and there are some other Christians i call conservative Christians. Social Christian girls are those ones you see in the church with immodest dressing, lipsticks, make up, jewellery and earrings. Conservative christian girls are those christian girls that take their faith seriously and they don't dress immodestly, wear lipsticks, make up, jewelry and earrings because they know it is wrong to do so. Now the time has come for me to get a wife and i look around searching for these conservative christian girls but i couldn't find one. So the question here is where are they? Where are those conservative christian girls? There are conservative christian girls but they just don't come out to be seen. On the other hand conservative christian men with high christian and moral values come out in search of conservative Christian women but they just don't find them. Now who is responsible for this? It is the conservative christian women that are letting conservative christian men down because it is them that are not coming out to be seen. This is my message to you conservative christian girls: pagan women are marrying men that are meant for you. Conservative christian men with high christian and moral values are meant for you, but you allow pagan women to marry the men that are meant for you by not coming out to be seen. Here is what is going on in the society today: conservative girls are not coming out to be seen instead they believe that the man is supposed to seek them in their mainly small denominational church and pagan men take advantage of this by going to meet conservative christian girls in their church whilst pretending to be Christians. On the other hand, conservative men come out and search for conservative girls but they don't find them and pagan women take advantage of this by trying to convince conservative men that marrying a pagan woman is no big deal. Now who is going to lose if pagans who pretend to be Christians keep marrying conservative Christians? it is not the conservative christian men that will lose. It is the conservative christian girls that will lose. For example i am a conservative christian man and even if i end up marrying one of those pagan women who pretends to be a christian i will not be shaken by her. She will not be able to bully, mislead or trick me into leaving Christianity. Because i am a strong christian and because i have the physical strength of a man. But God help you if you are a conservative christian girl that marries a pagan man who pretends to be a christian. He will use his masculine strength to bully you, mislead you and trick you into leaving Christianity. As a conservative christian girl that sleeps on the same bed as a pagan man who pretends to be a christian you are like a sheep that sleeps on the same bed as a lion. so it is the conservative girls that will lose if they don't come out to be seen.
so why are the conservative christian girls not coming out? Firstly i believe it is because of pride, they believe they are too special to come out and seek men, they wrongly believe it is the man that is supposed to seek the woman. conservative girls should know that the bible says that a man and woman should come together and marry but the bible did not say that it is the man that is supposed to seek the woman. So drop your pride and come out to be seen. another reason i believe conservative girls don't come out is because of intimidation. They turn on their TV sets and they see men portrayed sex craving perverts in immoral hip hop music videos or TV adverts and they wrongly believe that all men are perverts. they believe that all men are sex craving perverts so they run for cover and hide themselves in doors. The corrupt media of today has deceived conservative christian women into believing that they are not wanted by christian men, the media has deceived conservative christian girls into believing that christian men prefer to date social, bubbly and outgoing christian women with immodest dressings, earrings ,make up and lipsticks. But this is a lie, the truth is that christian men want those gentle, quiet, humble, conservative 'no make up" christian girls. if you are one of those conservative christian girls then know that you are a scarce commodity in the christian dating market and your value is very high as christian men are searching for you and you need to come out to be seen. Conservative girls should know that not all men are perverts and neither should they be intimidated, no one is going to rape you if you come out to be seen. there are some good, conservative christian men out there that are meant for you but you need to come out to be seen.
When i say come out i mean use any possible means to find that conservative christian man. For example, online Christian dating. I once searched through 1000 profiles of women on a Christian dating site and i dd not find one conservative christian girl in a thousand. Not even one. On the other hand i searched through male profiles and i saw hundreds of conservative men searching in vain for that conservative christian girl. Another way of coming out is to drop your pride and personally seek the conservative christian men yourself. By not coming out you are letting no one down but yourself. So please come out to be seen. conservative christian men are searching for you.

Having said that can anyone on this forum recommend any Christian denomination or church where conservative Christian women can be found. I have learnt of the apostolic Pentecostals but the issue is that i disagree with some beliefs of the apostolic Pentecostals, but that does not mean that the people who attend apostolic pentecostal churches are false, some may be true conservative Christians. So can anyone recommend any Christian denomination or church other than the apostolic Pentecostals where conservative Christians can be found?

 

[AgeofKnowledge]

Dude, if you really don't care about ceding away your relationship to the state as an independent person to become one that falls under a whole new body of law which has the ability take your money at will and put you in jail if you can't pay when they order you to than try a Christian college. They're teeming with young marriage aged women. Most have close to a 2 women to 1 male ratio and look at this: Co-ed Colleges with the Highest Percentage of Women Students | CollegeXpress

 

[hoss2576]

I think you are taking your own personal experiences to make some VERY broad statements. Based on your other thread about christian women and online dating, it seems to be a sole focus of yours. I assure you, there are plenty of conservative Christian women out there who are not afraid to be known. I really don't mean to be this blunt, but please don't let your lack of success be the basis for this stuff. Just keep looking until you fiind what you are looking for, don't criticize women for not being visible in a way you want them to be.

 

[CatHerder]

oh boy. Here we go again. Couldn't we just have another modesty thread instead?

 

[Hellooo]

i cant say apostolic Pentecostals 10x fast.

 

[gypsygirl]

i'm concerned about your use of "conservative" inside the christian label.

that's a label that has so very little meaning because it technically means nothing. the term "conservative" may have been more useful in the past, but today can be used to mean what i would call "fundamental" or a number of things.

i know people who would call me conservative, and yet, i know a sect not far from here who would probably refer to me as "liberal" because i don't cover my head in worship, or wear a skirt/dress every day. do you see what i'm getting at. some use the label strictly to describe theological leanings, i.e calvinist beliefs.

i agree that there ARE plenty of more conservative christians, but i don't think you'll necessarily find them by denomination, at least not entirely. also, i would agree that you're making conclusions about your experience that aren't based in fact (as hoss pointed out).

first, can you please answer a question for me? would you please describe what you refer to as "conservative"?

thanks. : )

p.s. i would strongly discourage you from affirming the moral virtue and conduct of other christian men. your comment about "we're not going to rape you..." was more than a bit odd to me. but further, even the bible acknowledges that we will have "wolves in sheep's clothing". : )

 

[Jeff_56]

As a conservative christian man, I always knew that when the time comes for me to get a wife i will marry one of those conservative christian women. There are Christians i call social Christians and there are some other Christians i call conservative Christians. Social Christian girls are those ones you see in the church with immodest dressing, lipsticks, make up, jewellery and earrings. Conservative christian girls are those christian girls that take their faith seriously and they don't dress immodestly, wear lipsticks, make up, jewelry and earrings because they know it is wrong to do so. Now the time has come for me to get a wife and i look around searching for these conservative christian girls but i couldn't find one. So the question here is where are they? Where are those conservative christian girls? There are conservative christian girls but they just don't come out to be seen. On the other hand conservative christian men with high christian and moral values come out in search of conservative Christian women but they just don't find them. Now who is responsible for this? It is the conservative christian women that are letting conservative christian men down because it is them that are not coming out to be seen. This is my message to you conservative christian girls: pagan women are marrying men that are meant for you. Conservative christian men with high christian and moral values are meant for you, but you allow pagan women to marry the men that are meant for you by not coming out to be seen. Here is what is going on in the society today: conservative girls are not coming out to be seen instead they believe that the man is supposed to seek them in their mainly small denominational church and pagan men take advantage of this by going to meet conservative christian girls in their church whilst pretending to be Christians. On the other hand, conservative men come out and search for conservative girls but they don't find them and pagan women take advantage of this by trying to convince conservative men that marrying a pagan woman is no big deal. Now who is going to lose if pagans who pretend to be Christians keep marrying conservative Christians? it is not the conservative christian men that will lose. It is the conservative christian girls that will lose. For example i am a conservative christian man and even if i end up marrying one of those pagan women who pretends to be a christian i will not be shaken by her. She will not be able to bully, mislead or trick me into leaving Christianity. Because i am a strong christian and because i have the physical strength of a man. But God help you if you are a conservative christian girl that marries a pagan man who pretends to be a christian. He will use his masculine strength to bully you, mislead you and trick you into leaving Christianity. As a conservative christian girl that sleeps on the same bed as a pagan man who pretends to be a christian you are like a sheep that sleeps on the same bed as a lion. so it is the conservative girls that will lose if they don't come out to be seen.
so why are the conservative christian girls not coming out? Firstly i believe it is because of pride, they believe they are too special to come out and seek men, they wrongly believe it is the man that is supposed to seek the woman. conservative girls should know that the bible says that a man and woman should come together and marry but the bible did not say that it is the man that is supposed to seek the woman. So drop your pride and come out to be seen. another reason i believe conservative girls don't come out is because of intimidation. They turn on their TV sets and they see men portrayed sex craving perverts in immoral hip hop music videos or TV adverts and they wrongly believe that all men are perverts. they believe that all men are sex craving perverts so they run for cover and hide themselves in doors. The corrupt media of today has deceived conservative christian women into believing that they are not wanted by christian men, the media has deceived conservative christian girls into believing that christian men prefer to date social, bubbly and outgoing christian women with immodest dressings, earrings ,make up and lipsticks. But this is a lie, the truth is that christian men want those gentle, quiet, humble, conservative 'no make up" christian girls. if you are one of those conservative christian girls then know that you are a scarce commodity in the christian dating market and your value is very high as christian men are searching for you and you need to come out to be seen. Conservative girls should know that not all men are perverts and neither should they be intimidated, no one is going to rape you if you come out to be seen. there are some good, conservative christian men out there that are meant for you but you need to come out to be seen.
When i say come out i mean use any possible means to find that conservative christian man. For example, online Christian dating. I once searched through 1000 profiles of women on a Christian dating site and i dd not find one conservative christian girl in a thousand. Not even one. On the other hand i searched through male profiles and i saw hundreds of conservative men searching in vain for that conservative christian girl. Another way of coming out is to drop your pride and personally seek the conservative christian men yourself. By not coming out you are letting no one down but yourself. So please come out to be seen. conservative christian men are searching for you.

Having said that can anyone on this forum recommend any Christian denomination or church where conservative Christian women can be found. I have learnt of the apostolic Pentecostals but the issue is that i disagree with some beliefs of the apostolic Pentecostals, but that does not mean that the people who attend apostolic pentecostal churches are false, some may be true conservative Christians. So can anyone recommend any Christian denomination or church other than the apostolic Pentecostals where conservative Christians can be found?

keep seeking. God is Faithful. man is not faithful. (notice that 'regulars' , even 'pastors'?? here on this forum exemplify what you say -- endorsing immoral, immodest, disobedient behavior even in their own spouses for show to others.....) so test everything by GOD'S WORD....

here's a good example(several here have seen it and like it) of truthfully godly lives ---
(note in their experience, even the amish may excommunicate families for being faithful to Jesus ... so no matter what 'group' you may find, with one exception(and even then), you still have to remain in prayer always and test everything...)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtNXvE_rLoE

 

[Tintin]

Paragraphs seem to be your enemy. Please make nice with them before you attempt to pursue a relationship.

Also, makeup, jewellery and earrings etc. aren't evil. I don't know where you got that idea. I'm fairly conservative (whatever that really means), but this seems like a man-made rule. Yes.

 

[AgeofKnowledge]

I know, lol. But then I wonder is it not an issue with English not being a first language perhaps?

Paragraphs seem to be your enemy.

 

[Roh_Chris]

Paragraphs seem to be your enemy. Please make nice with them before you attempt to pursue a relationship.

Also, makeup, jewellery and earrings etc. aren't evil. I don't know where you got that idea. I'm fairly conservative (whatever that really means), but this seems like a man-made rule. Yes.

Well, say that to the people in my church.

Actually, I wouldn't be surprised if he was from my church because we have a few assemblies in Switzerland. From what I know, we are the only "global" church that teach this stuff.

 

[Tickety-toc]

Dude, if you really don't care about ceding away your relationship to the state as an independent person to become one that falls under a whole new body of law which has the ability take your money at will and put you in jail if you can't pay when they order you to than try a Christian college. They're teeming with young marriage aged women. Most have close to a 2 women to 1 male ratio and look at this: Co-ed Colleges with the Highest Percentage of Women Students | CollegeXpress

Great!
IF you wanna be a nurse. In my line of work we are over 99% male

 

[JonahLynx]

Having said that can anyone on this forum recommend any Christian denomination or church where conservative Christian women can be found.

The 17th-century Puritans.

 

[melita916]

wait...

wat?

 

[PopClick]

Conservative christian men with high christian and moral values are meant for you, but you allow pagan women to marry the men that are meant for you by not coming out to be seen.

On the other hand, conservative men come out and search for conservative girls but they don't find them and pagan women take advantage of this by trying to convince conservative men that marrying a pagan woman is no big deal. Now who is going to lose if pagans who pretend to be Christians keep marrying conservative Christians? it is not the conservative christian men that will lose. It is the conservative christian girls that will lose. For example i am a conservative christian man and even if i end up marrying one of those pagan women who pretends to be a christian i will not be shaken by her. She will not be able to bully, mislead or trick me into leaving Christianity. Because i am a strong christian and because i have the physical strength of a man. But God help you if you are a conservative christian girl that marries a pagan man who pretends to be a christian. He will use his masculine strength to bully you, mislead you and trick you into leaving Christianity. As a conservative christian girl that sleeps on the same bed as a pagan man who pretends to be a christian you are like a sheep that sleeps on the same bed as a lion.

A "conservative Christian man with high Christian and moral values" will indeed lose out if he decides that it is better to marry a "pagan" instead of following what the bible says about marriage. But I'm assuming here that you're talking about actual pagans, and not "women who wear earrings", so I could easily be assuming too much.

P.S. You have too much faith in your own strength if you believe that a "pagan" woman will not be able to convince you to leave Christianity, but she just might be able to convince you to marry her.

 

[Tankman131]

I will admit now i couldn't finish reading your post due to losing my place constantly, yet i think i get the jist.

Culture is and always has been a powerful draw for beluevers and non-believers alike. Yes, there are certain things that modern women have latched onto in our culture that would be clearly covered in 1 Cor 8:13 (at my christian college it was tight yoga pants and clothes with cleavage. Do i expect my christian sisters to wear head coverings 1 Cor 11:6 or jewelry 1 peter 3:3? Im not sure.

The Bible teaches us we are meant to be Holy from this world and its culture, but i dont think that means all christian women should dress like they are in a convent. If the person has Christ in their heart their should consider what is appropriate and what is inappropriate, and what could lead to a brother stumbling.

 

[pwrnJC]

Personally...I do not nor would I ever seek a woman who wears a prairie dress, hair in buns, no deodorant, jewelry, perfume, ankles not showing, lace around her throat, and can gut a hog quicker than skinnin' a possum! Nor should a man wear 'wife beaters', never expose his hairy chest, and only wear double knotted ties, right? Religion has never ever been KIND to females..only because men enjoy having them 'put in their place"..sadly. Give me a woman with self confidence, high morals and good hygiene any day! IF she wants to wear a flowered summer dress..more power to her...

 

[Shannon50]

Paragraphs seem to be your enemy. Please make nice with them before you attempt to pursue a relationship.

Also, makeup, jewellery and earrings etc. aren't evil. I don't know where you got that idea. I'm fairly conservative (whatever that really means), but this seems like a man-made rule. Yes.

LOL LOL!! You get 10 points for this post!!

 

[egeiro]

Wait, this isn't just some regular trolling....?

 

[melita916]

This is my message to you conservative christian girls: pagan women are marrying men that are meant for you. Conservative christian men with high christian and moral values are meant for you, but you allow pagan women to marry the men that are meant for you by not coming out to be seen.

On the other hand, conservative men come out and search for conservative girls but they don't find them and pagan women take advantage of this by trying to convince conservative men that marrying a pagan woman is no big deal.

this is where i'm confused. i figured a christian conservative man wouldn't want to be unequally yoked. i figured he wouldn't compromise. if a pagan woman can convince a man with high christian morals and values that marrying her is no biggie, then it is not the conservative christian woman's fault. he compromised.

but of course, that's just my opinion.

*goes back into hiding*



p.s. i'm not confused at all lol

 

[Shouryu]

Wait, this isn't just some regular trolling....?

No, it's just another man who places all the blame on women, and is here to teach you all why you are wrong, because that's his place, and that's your place.