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Hey everyone,
So I have my dad and many issues with him and I just need advice and help and prayer and I don't even know what else. My dad is Hispanic and 39 years old. But we have come into some really big problems with his anger. You see whenever he gets angry at me he just can't seem to control it in any sense of the word. If i do something he doesn't like he just explodes with rage. If i disobey him or forget to do a chore ( I have ADHD so its hard to focus) he calls me useless. If something isn't "just so" he doesn't like it and I suffer. He tells me he loves and i don't doubt it but then why does he do this? Why does he call me an idiot because i bought my gf of a year a 200$ ring originally at $1,200? And then to top it off he ALWAYS calls me names when I forget to do something (which im getting better at) He calls me useless, dead weight, lazy, ungrateful, not helpful, etc. And this takes a toll on me, i try to tell him he's hurting our relationship but he thinks that it's my fault and that he has no part to play in it. I mean if he did, wouldn't see what this had done to me instead of acting like im normal when clearly this has ha d a negative impact?
Another thing also is he has NO idea on how to talk. MY gf has anxiety depression ptsd and so much more and he doesn't see past her disability
So I have my dad and many issues with him and I just need advice and help and prayer and I don't even know what else. My dad is Hispanic and 39 years old. But we have come into some really big problems with his anger. You see whenever he gets angry at me he just can't seem to control it in any sense of the word. If i do something he doesn't like he just explodes with rage. If i disobey him or forget to do a chore ( I have ADHD so its hard to focus) he calls me useless. If something isn't "just so" he doesn't like it and I suffer. He tells me he loves and i don't doubt it but then why does he do this? Why does he call me an idiot because i bought my gf of a year a 200$ ring originally at $1,200? And then to top it off he ALWAYS calls me names when I forget to do something (which im getting better at) He calls me useless, dead weight, lazy, ungrateful, not helpful, etc. And this takes a toll on me, i try to tell him he's hurting our relationship but he thinks that it's my fault and that he has no part to play in it. I mean if he did, wouldn't see what this had done to me instead of acting like im normal when clearly this has ha d a negative impact?
Another thing also is he has NO idea on how to talk. MY gf has anxiety depression ptsd and so much more and he doesn't see past her disability